Topic: To tell or not to tell.
bubblejug6's photo
Sun 04/13/08 07:45 PM
My best friend is dating this girl who i know for a fact is cheating on him.
Do i tell him?

Dreamer01's photo
Sun 04/13/08 07:46 PM
I wouldn't bluntly tell him, but I would try giving him little hints somehow.

Etrain's photo
Sun 04/13/08 07:46 PM
yup...do tell

PATSFAN's photo
Sun 04/13/08 07:46 PM
Tell

wyatt1844's photo
Sun 04/13/08 07:47 PM
Tell'em on Springer!!

Derekkye's photo
Sun 04/13/08 07:47 PM
Edited by Derekkye on Sun 04/13/08 07:48 PM
for sure - better yet tell her to tell him

wikkedlilgrrl's photo
Sun 04/13/08 07:48 PM
tell he may get mad but if he finds out that you knew and didnt say it will prolly be worse

Tankk's photo
Sun 04/13/08 07:49 PM
Unless you were there in the room with her I wouldn't say anything.

iRon's photo
Sun 04/13/08 07:49 PM
yes quick before he gets in too deep but have your facts straight......

If he is in too deep with her then no. It will back fire and you will be the bad guy.....

welder_one's photo
Sun 04/13/08 07:50 PM
how would you want it if the situation were reversed?

best is go to him with cold hard facts, not hear say...


tell him

brooke007's photo
Sun 04/13/08 07:50 PM
yup...


sux, but
durn karma..

Bmac2008's photo
Sun 04/13/08 07:51 PM

My best friend is dating this girl who i know for a fact is cheating on him.
Do i tell him?

Tell him now, better now than later, Thats how I almost got my first conviction for aggrivated assault... ****ing bastard, I woulda killed him....

wanttachat's photo
Sun 04/13/08 07:53 PM
yes you tell him... with pictures

tanyaann's photo
Sun 04/13/08 07:55 PM
You know he well if he is your best friend, would get get mad and defensive ... take her side and ruin your friendship... would he want you to tell him that, and if you didn't and he found out you knew would that ruin your friendship... weight all options, but for me honesty is the best policy. You can also confront her and tell her that she was 2 weeks to tell him about her infidelity and then tell him in 2 weeks if she hasn't.

ccindyct's photo
Sun 04/13/08 07:56 PM
Tell, now, but ONLY if you are 100% certain.

no photo
Sun 04/13/08 08:01 PM
send him an anonymous note with specific information so he can check it out himself.

no photo
Sun 04/13/08 08:08 PM
The way I am with my best friend, I would tell him almost instantaneously.

Kelly7717's photo
Sun 04/13/08 09:55 PM
Yes tell your friend.

I was out. I saw your girlfriend. She was with some guy at .... I left a short time later. Did you see/meet her that night?

Something to make him understand and leaving it in his hands.

bfstx's photo
Sun 04/13/08 10:20 PM
NO CONFRONT HER AND TELL HER THAT SHE HAS TO OR YOU WILL THEN GIVE HER TO THE END OF THE WEEK AND IF SHE DOESNT TELL HIM OR LEAVE HIM YOU TELL BOTH MEN WHAT SHE IS DOING BUT BE CAREFULL THAT YOU DONT HAVE ANY SKELETONS IN THE CLOSET IT CAN COME BACK TO BITE YOU