I was reading the news this morning and came across this article. Whats your thoughts on the matter?



Jeanna Bryner
LiveScience Staff Writer
LiveScience.com Thu Apr 10, 11:25 AM ET

Women seeking a lifelong mate might do well to choose the guy a notch below them in the looks category. New research reveals couples in which the wife is better looking than her husband are more positive and supportive than other match-ups.

The reason, researchers suspect, is that men place great value on beauty, whereas women are more interested in having a supportive husband.

Researchers admit that looks are subjective, but studies show there are some universal standards, including large eyes, "baby face" features, symmetric faces, so-called average faces, and specific waist-hip ratios in men versus women.

Past research has shown that individuals with comparable stunning looks are attracted to each other and once they hook up they report greater relationship satisfaction. These studies, however, are mainly based on new couples, showing that absolute beauty is important in the earliest stages of couple-hood, said lead researcher James McNulty of the University of Tennessee. But the role of physical attractiveness in well-established partnerships, such as marriage, is somewhat of a mystery.

The new study, published in the February issue of the Journal of Family Psychology, reveals looks continue to matter beyond that initial attraction, though in a different way.
Supportive spouses

McNulty's team assessed 82 couples who had married within the previous six months and had been together for nearly three years prior to tying the knot. Participants were on average in their early to mid-20s.

Researchers videotaped as each spouse discussed with their partner a personal problem for 10 minutes. The tapes were analyzed for whether partners were supportive of spouses' issues, which included goals to eat healthier, to land a new job and to exercise more often.

"A negative husband would've said, 'This is your problem, you deal with it,'" McNulty said, "versus 'Hey, I'm here for you; what do you want me to do?; how can I help you?'"

A group of trained "coders" rated the facial attractiveness of each spouse on a scale from 1 to 10, with the perfect 10 representing the ultimate babe. About a third of the couples had a more attractive wife, a third a more attractive husband and the remaining partners showed matching looks.
Trophy wives
Overall, wives and husbands behaved more positively when the woman was better looking.

The finding "seems very reasonable," said Dan Ariely, a professor of behavioral economics at MIT's Program in Media Arts and Sciences and Sloan School of Management. "Men are very sensitive to women's attractiveness. Women seem to be sensitive to men's height and salary," said Ariely, who was not involved in the recent study.

In couples with more attractive husbands, both partners were less supportive of one another. McNulty suggests wives mirror, in some ways, the level of support they get from husbands.
"The husband who's less physically attractive than his wife is getting something more than maybe he can expect to get," McNulty told LiveScience. "He's getting something better than he's providing at that level. So he's going to work hard to maintain that relationship."

Men who are more attractive than their partners would theoretically have access to partners who are more attractive than their current spouses, McNulty said. The "grass could be greener" mentality could make these men less satisfied and less committed to maintain the marriage.

Physical attractiveness of husbands is not as important to women, the researchers suggest. Rather, wives are looking for supportive husbands, they say.

So it seems the mismatch in looks is actually a perfect match. "Equitable is unlikely to mean the same on every dimension," Ariely said during a telephone interview. "It just means that overall two people make sense together."

very true...I agree

Oh well.

It makes perfect sense 2 me dear.I agree completely with this study.And furthermore outer beauty will catch my attention,but inner beauty is what will capture my heart.From a man's perspective that is.Godspeed!Cy

I think it's too long

I like that, outer beauty catches the eye, inner catches the heart,

all I know is , If you own a Harley,it don't matter if yer ugly or not .lol

I have never heard that before

I just want to see your gun

Hmmmm.....I wonder how much money was spent on the research?
It's all common sense!

your wish is my command. See avatar

oooh it's so stubby!

that is sooooo false....


harleys are not any man's ticket to any woman...



i see alot of men who ride nice harleys,

but most of them are a bunch of idiots...

i'd rather ride my bicycle anyday


than get on the back of those ego tripper's bikes..


and believe me...it has happened ///

it totally blew their minds

that a lady wouldn't do backflips for them

and be begging for a ride....


that is so sick




and any chick who goes with just anyone

just because he has a harley

needs her head seriously examined

she is not thinking straight

well, my parents took the half off deal with my circumcision :(

yes...me too //// good one CyPoet

why do girls think guys with bikes are cool? It seems like so much silliness to me.

well,my outer beauty doesn't have that effect which is why I have to bludgeon them to get their attention.

hiker chick.....


don't be so hard on yourself dear....


you are beautiful

This article pretty much reinforces what I already knew. All guys want is eye candy, & if they "settle" for less they will always be looking for something better. I can wait on a guy hand & foot, give him my paycheck, adore him, but I am never going to be pretty enough. They will take all I offer but they are looking for someone prettier the whole time.
I bet a blind man will have a buddy rating chicks for him. He'd want to be seen with a hottie even if he couldn't see her himself. Men really are that shallow.

You are oh so wrong. You have to have a connection. being a mindless bimbo will not get you a second glance from me. There has to be depth. yes, I love a beautiful woman, but it has to extend far past the external. If I wanted to talk to a melon, I would buy one and take it with me on my travels