What would your message be to a cheater?


Here is mine....
If you are gonna cheat this is the life you will lead..sounds well deserved doesnt it???

STDs are real and there are lots of skanky people that carry them. A diamond may be forever, but gonorrhea lasts a long time too.

Hook up in public and chances are good that you will be spotted by someone you don't know who knows you, and knows your girlfriend.

The more you go back for some, the greater the risk you will get busted.

Yes, she will lie to you about being on the pill and actually get pregnant.

If you are meeting your side thing at your place, your neighbors know and sometimes they talk to girlfriends. Especially if you live in an apartment with thin walls.

When men cheat, it usually means that they are looking for something their girlfriend is not providing. Realize that your real relationship is already screwed.

If you truly love your girlfriend, expect some serious, painful guilt. I mean, the kind that gnaws at your soul. If you still have one.

You could end up on one of those fun websites in the spotlight like WomanSavers.com

Your girlfriend's family and friends have a longer memory than she does. Long after girlfriend forgave you, her family and friends will still hate you.

Trying to date two women costs three times as much.

Girlfriends will "date up" after you since she will realize this will pain you the most. Maybe your boss, or your richer, more successful brother, or sister.

Girlfriends will "scratch" up your prized car/boat/motorcycle, destroy your things or throw them out.

Some girlfriends will take things public and put pictures of you in your banana hanger on the internet with a story about what an asshole you are. Everyone online will know about it.

So if you like all these things..that may and will happen.
Go ahead..be stupid.
Cheat.

There is no where to run and no where to hide

go straight to hell

I've been cheated on many, many times. I walked away with my head held high. In a way... I'm actually sort of glad. The person they cheated on me with saved me more time and trouble. And then they become someone else's problem.

message to a cheater....

F*ck you..

Trust me I could go on ..

but I am extremely busy..

My marriage ended 8 yrs ago..so I havent been cheated on since then..but I just wanted to put this thread out there and give some food for thought.

Cheaters' can go to h*ll. And to the cheatee (is that a word) once a cheater always a cheater

I would just say "It's your life, you do what you want to with it." I wouldn't want anyone telling me what to do with mine.

Read my profile its already on there

I would say becareful of the web you weive because what comes around goes around..

...I have to say one thing...I dont agree w/this saying...I only cheated once in my life, but it was a biggy, never since...22 yrs ago I got married after being friends for 10 yrs w/benes for a year and after the I do's he didn't not even right after...he never consummated the marriage...so I was destroyed and said yes one night to an X...but I dont condone it..I was in therapy after it all, would not make the same choice again and never have but, it just shows you every situation is different...after 10 months and lots of guilt for my one night I moved him out and never looked back...never married since never cheated since....


...so please keep that in mind when using ultimatums..we are all human every one has a mistake they would change the behavior now or right after ...ok I'm all preached out !!!


~wicked~

One a cheat always a cheat in my book

As Wicked says... this is easier said than done. And really not true.

((wicked)) you are one in a big group that don't/won't cheat again. Everyone I know that cheated once did it again and again. You are a bigger person for admitting and knowing you were wrong and for that I commend you

I agree. Some cheaters can change. I've known a few that have. They are very close people to me.

eat poo and may your privates fester and rot off, that is my message

..thanks lil that means alot, cause often we see things a little different, but you are respectful as w/bad..and I always enjoy the openess on this site....

~wicked~

I understand and you know it was wrong, damn shame all people that cheat don't and won't admit it and I guess that is why I am bitter at times about cheaters

Really? Humans can make...mistakes? And learn from them? And change and become better people? I am shocked ..I thought the world was black and white with the "good" lined up self-righteously on one side, and the "bad" waiting for execution on the other.