someone plz tell me when is the right time to say I love you because
alot of times after just talking to a guy for just hours or a day or two
they end up saying that they love me what to say not sure I don't want
to be mean to anyone but I can't love that fast

Hey Jenn,

hi fanta

saying i love u is more than what people think it is. when some one says
i love u and u r not ready to say it back just let them know that u r
not ready for that stage yet.tell them to slow down.

but I have done that and most still don't get it

I find the best thing to do is just ignore it a pretend you didn't hear
it. If ?'d on why you don't say it tell them straight out i don't love
you and i'm not gonna lie about it. To me those words are sacred adn i
don't take them lightly so if somebody hears from me it's because i
truly do love them.

say I LOVE YOU only when you really do...
untill you meet face to face,
and can then truely say those three words...

well you know the rest...lol...

that is what I thought that you can't really love someone just talking
online or on the phone but I have told most that have said that they
love me that I don't love them and they still keep on and then they get
mad at me if I never say it back but I can't just throw those words
around so easly

I love you is something I say to my friends, family all the time.I say
it to people I date after a month or so...

I think In love shouldn t be used until a relationship has been
developed for some period of time, which is different for everyone.

people don't realize the power words have, I love you, should only be
said when both people are truly taken with each other.It's way too soon
to say that to anyone in my book.

thank you everyone for you insite

Dangereous word use it wisely

I Love You are the most three powerful words there are. They should not
be used as words just to tose around between two lovers. Once you say
those words to the one that is your partner you should make sure that is
the real way you feel. If they say them to you at first don't ignore
them that is hurtful also let them know you know but not ready to say
those words back you could let them know they do mean alot to you and
maybe you love being around them and they are the only one your seeing
but.. give you just a little more time for you don't want to say what
your not comfortable with. Some of us were not raised to say I love you
as your leave a friend. I'm one I don't freely say those words except to
family and my kids. My kids here them every time we part. But I'm one
that if I tell someone I Love You, you can beat it is straight from the
heart. I don't say those words unless they are heartfelt. So you say
them only when you feel that way not because they have said them to you.

NO NEVER,,3 words to loose your life on!!

Hummmmm now Bill that sounds real hopeful to any lady looking your way
:) Ya want to re-group on that thought?

LMAO!!!J/K

Jenn If a guy is telling you that in a couple of days, get rid of him
because the only reson someone would say that to you that fast is trying
to get something that you are not ready to give Hmm shell we say players
lol

when you really feel it !!

Sounds to me as if this person does not have much selfesteam. They are
looking for something/someone to hold on to. I agree, u can't love
someone that fast from the internet.

I would let them know that your not to that stage. And please for me,
do not give this person to much personel information, to me he/she
sounds a bit unstable....

All my best
T

Hi, Jenn
Someone like that is just trying to play mind games with you, dismiss
them. I love you, are not words to be played with. And it's obvious
that a person that would try to play with another persons mind/heart
like that is just look for kicks/control/cheap pleasures. Again.
DISMISS THEM.
GOOD LUCK GIRL
CHARISMA