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Topic: i am messed up
dexterx's photo
Fri 04/11/08 08:36 PM




a feeling that could be the most beautiful feeling that’s ever been seen. The girl is beautiful, sweet, understanding.
The beauty of this woman is second to none .when she is around my world lights up. I can see things that I wouldn’t otherwise see.
The sweetness of this soul is one of a kind. She is not a person to try an get over on another. She stands by the one she love though thick an thin.
Understanding what can I say about her understanding? She works very hard to deal with my issues. She will listen to my complaints. she always puts my feelings first .
I myself am fully an truly deeply in love with this wonderful soul. The glow from my heart is non-stop in her presents. In my heart she is my mate, my life, an the reason to wake in the morning .
With all this said this could be the love of a life time. To me she is the one that completes me. But there’s a problem . she has a love an that love is not me. She loves a guy that dumped her after he asked her to move away. But when he got there he dumped her . We do share love but my love for her is more then she can return.
Should I give up, well the answer in short is i can not. I feel that I am half a person with out her. i feel its not fair to us. Happiness is with in reach for both of us. I know that if we were to become one, that it would be for ever …

Single_Rob's photo
Fri 04/11/08 08:39 PM
Sounds like you are running headlong into a train wreck that might wind up with you having a restraining order agianst you

no photo
Fri 04/11/08 08:39 PM
I would try Mutual Match again. See how that works.

cdanny47's photo
Fri 04/11/08 08:40 PM
:smile: Jus tbe their as a friend for now and see what happen's

woundingaura's photo
Fri 04/11/08 08:40 PM
i know exactly how you feel. my family chased away my ex. she is my soulmate. sometimes i dont wanna go on living without her.

EtherealEmbers's photo
Fri 04/11/08 08:40 PM
There's too many lonely women out there for guys to be longing after someone who doesn't want them... what a waste of time and energy! brokenheart

Dopey180's photo
Fri 04/11/08 08:40 PM
sounds like she needs a little time to get over the other guy.

dexterx's photo
Fri 04/11/08 08:41 PM
we have been best friends for 18 yrs

Monier's photo
Fri 04/11/08 08:42 PM
Focus on her and only her. Those feelings are'nt always easy to find for somebody. Worry about the only thing that gives you these feelings, her. Things will come into place. Doubts can hurt your goal. Be totally sure of your love for her, and live your life as if she will never leave. Savor what you have....everyday

Johncenawlife316's photo
Fri 04/11/08 08:42 PM
Well it doesn't seem she loves you like you love her. So why not find some one else that will love you for you instead of chasing this woman who doesn't seemly want noting to do with you at all. huh huh huh

MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Fri 04/11/08 08:42 PM
Perhaps she just needs more time to get over being
dumped. flowerforyou

bastet126's photo
Fri 04/11/08 08:43 PM
sounds like she is just leading you on into a dead end road - find your completeness elsewhere. flowerforyou

no photo
Fri 04/11/08 08:43 PM

we have been best friends for 18 yrs


Good Luck! brokenheart

littleike's photo
Fri 04/11/08 08:45 PM





a feeling that could be the most beautiful feeling that’s ever been seen. The girl is beautiful, sweet, understanding.
The beauty of this woman is second to none .when she is around my world lights up. I can see things that I wouldn’t otherwise see.
The sweetness of this soul is one of a kind. She is not a person to try an get over on another. She stands by the one she love though thick an thin.
Understanding what can I say about her understanding? She works very hard to deal with my issues. She will listen to my complaints. she always puts my feelings first .
I myself am fully an truly deeply in love with this wonderful soul. The glow from my heart is non-stop in her presents. In my heart she is my mate, my life, an the reason to wake in the morning .
With all this said this could be the love of a life time. To me she is the one that completes me. But there’s a problem . she has a love an that love is not me. She loves a guy that dumped her after he asked her to move away. But when he got there he dumped her . We do share love but my love for her is more then she can return.
Should I give up, well the answer in short is i can not. I feel that I am half a person with out her. i feel its not fair to us. Happiness is with in reach for both of us. I know that if we were to become one, that it would be for ever …

does she know how you feel? or do you just asum she knows how you feel?

MsTeddyBear2u's photo
Fri 04/11/08 08:45 PM
WOAH! Friends for 18 years?

If she has'nt seen relationship in you by now-
sorry but she probbley never will...


TwilightsTwin's photo
Fri 04/11/08 08:47 PM
Lucky Girlohwell

kirk443's photo
Fri 04/11/08 08:47 PM
The inner sadness that you display is in actuality the sadness that you feel towards your mom. Really..

think about it.drinker

littleike's photo
Fri 04/11/08 08:47 PM

Focus on her and only her. Those feelings are'nt always easy to find for somebody. Worry about the only thing that gives you these feelings, her. Things will come into place. Doubts can hurt your goal. Be totally sure of your love for her, and live your life as if she will never leave. Savor what you have....everyday
great advice!!!!!

Ray_nw's photo
Fri 04/11/08 08:47 PM

we have been best friends for 18 yrs

Really don't see that changing. Take a break, including the fantisy, from trying to be with her.

Johncenawlife316's photo
Fri 04/11/08 08:48 PM
Where is Mirror.. he will be there for you. laugh

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