new relationships , why can't women trust some thing good when it happens. and have trust in the new man that she is with, why be so cold towards him . we are not the ex that made you this way , remember we have gone threw excally what you have gone threw maybe even worse . but we try to forgive and move on to make our lives better then before. you all need to learn to trust again and move on for the future

Women are just really careful. We're very emotional creatures. Men tend to be more logical, which gives them more control over their emotions. If they know that they shouldn't be feeling doubtful or scared in a relationship, it is easier for them to convince themselves not to feel that way. "Women can't control their emotions." Not most of us, anyway. It is a blessing and a curse, but give women time and let them know how much you care (this is the way into a woman's heart: showing you care), and they will learn to trust you.

I think woman are cautious because there are so many players out there that Manipulate woman with emotion to get what they want from them which is to get horizontal.It really is sick some guys and I know a few make a hobby of manipulating woman
just to get what they want >sex< and then dump them cold. This is why they may seem overly cautious and cold.

Dear Tracey I beg to differ -in my experience the MORE time that goes by the less likely you are to EVER hear from a woman online! Very simply if it is there it is NOW-or NEVER!

Dreamkisser you sure got that right! How often do women advertise they are looking to meet a man, and then you read "friends only", or as you get to know the woman she will spring"I'm seeing someone"-or "I don't know what I want" and of course the three letter word SEX is ALWAYS forbidden! All this adds up to one thing-a woman who is not serious about meeting a man and establishing a normal relationship-just a way to injure another human being's feelings and waste time. Let's try some sincerity!

As a woman I find the opposite to be true. I'm ready for that relationship. I know exactly what I want.....it's a matter of finding it or of it finding me! I'm a romantic at heart.....I will never let past relationships get in the way of finding and being open to a 'dive in head first' relationship.