Topic: "YOUR LAST BREAK-UP"
dejavieu's photo
Thu 04/10/08 02:37 PM


Well, lets see...we broke up because after 15 years, I still wouldn't marry him and had ruined his life for it.

But, the good news is that his life was not ruined after all, and he's getting married to a beautiful, intelligent woman this fall, who he very much deserves, and we are still the best of friends.


WOW...that is commendableflowerforyou
How so?

sleeplessingermany's photo
Thu 04/10/08 02:46 PM
i did.

it took me a while, but i finally realized that i deserve a lot better !drinker drinker happy

FearandLoathing's photo
Thu 04/10/08 02:46 PM
I don't remember.grumble

FindMe1113's photo
Thu 04/10/08 02:50 PM



Well, lets see...we broke up because after 15 years, I still wouldn't marry him and had ruined his life for it.

But, the good news is that his life was not ruined after all, and he's getting married to a beautiful, intelligent woman this fall, who he very much deserves, and we are still the best of friends.


WOW...that is commendableflowerforyou
How so?


Well, because on occasion, break-ups end up being a bitter situation.....and the one that is truly hurt in the end sometimes feel a sense of resentment

dejavieu's photo
Thu 04/10/08 02:56 PM




Well, lets see...we broke up because after 15 years, I still wouldn't marry him and had ruined his life for it.

But, the good news is that his life was not ruined after all, and he's getting married to a beautiful, intelligent woman this fall, who he very much deserves, and we are still the best of friends.


WOW...that is commendableflowerforyou
How so?


Well, because on occasion, break-ups end up being a bitter situation.....and the one that is truly hurt in the end sometimes feel a sense of resentment
I just got lucky...if he hadn't met his future wife, he'd still feel that I ruined his life, and I'd have to live with my part in his misery. Pure dumb luck!

FindMe1113's photo
Thu 04/10/08 03:04 PM
I think it's cool

dejavieu's photo
Thu 04/10/08 03:07 PM

I think it's cool
It actually is, isn't it? I guess we don't know how good we have it sometimes until someone points it out. Thanks FindMe! flowerforyou

dejavieu's photo
Thu 04/10/08 03:08 PM
Hey...wait a minute! How about yours?

FindMe1113's photo
Thu 04/10/08 03:15 PM
Well, I ended my last relationship which was "Marriage" because my husband couldn't handle my being sick in 1998. He left when I needed him most, and when he wanted to return during my healing process....I said NO!...I petitioned for divorced 4 months later....glasses

bttrflyv2's photo
Thu 04/10/08 03:22 PM
oh girl im so sorry......hugs to you i know that had to of been hard

FindMe1113's photo
Thu 04/10/08 03:24 PM
Edited by FindMe1113 on Thu 04/10/08 03:26 PM

oh girl im so sorry......hugs to you i know that had to of been hard


It was very hard to be abandoned by someone who took vows..."In Sickness or in Health"....ohwell

Thanks for caring....Huggzzflowerforyou flowerforyou

no photo
Thu 04/10/08 03:46 PM

I did...Had enough..he was abusive..nuff said


mines kinda the same....he was an alcoholic and was basically using me for a nice place to live...noway noway

no photo
Thu 04/10/08 03:51 PM
Had to end it. I loved him dearly, but couldn't take that everytime I left the house, he thought I was gonna meet someone. For the record, never cheated on him or anyone EVER!! But the closer we got, the more insecure and controlling he became. It was leave or die of suffocation.

FindMe1113's photo
Thu 04/10/08 03:55 PM

Had to end it. I loved him dearly, but couldn't take that everytime I left the house, he thought I was gonna meet someone. For the record, never cheated on him or anyone EVER!! But the closer we got, the more insecure and controlling he became. It was leave or die of suffocation.


WOW...I'm so happy you were strong enough to look out for Number One....YOURSELF!flowerforyou flowerforyou

missy51970's photo
Thu 04/10/08 03:56 PM

Had to end it. I loved him dearly, but couldn't take that everytime I left the house, he thought I was gonna meet someone. For the record, never cheated on him or anyone EVER!! But the closer we got, the more insecure and controlling he became. It was leave or die of suffocation.



Sounds exactly like my ex... and I left for the same reasons

FindMe1113's photo
Thu 04/10/08 04:29 PM


Had to end it. I loved him dearly, but couldn't take that everytime I left the house, he thought I was gonna meet someone. For the record, never cheated on him or anyone EVER!! But the closer we got, the more insecure and controlling he became. It was leave or die of suffocation.



Sounds exactly like my ex... and I left for the same reasons


Good Choice Missyflowerforyou

no photo
Thu 04/10/08 04:34 PM


Me. Her children were the spawns of satan.


laugh laugh laugh laugh

OMG laugh



Once when the mother was out of the room for a moment the older daughter asked me if my children also punched holes in the wall, threw things, screamed and beat the crap out of each other. I said ummmm, mostly not... Mostly they talk about their problems. The girl inadvertantly forced me to admit truths to myself that I was trying to avoid....

I've since made additions to my laws of dating...

Cutiepieforyou's photo
Thu 04/10/08 04:37 PM
I ended it after realizing that he wasn't over his ex.

hikerchick's photo
Thu 04/10/08 04:38 PM



Me. Her children were the spawns of satan.


laugh laugh laugh laugh

OMG laugh



Once when the mother was out of the room for a moment the older daughter asked me if my children also punched holes in the wall, threw things, screamed and beat the crap out of each other. I said ummmm, mostly not... Mostly they talk about their problems. The girl inadvertantly forced me to admit truths to myself that I was trying to avoid....

I've since made additions to my laws of dating...


Umm - I am guessing the mother wasn't Donna Reed. Apples tend not to fall too far from their trees.

shenadra's photo
Thu 04/10/08 04:40 PM

That information is on a need-to-know basis...huh
That

I totally agree.