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Topic: dating and kids
debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Thu 04/10/08 07:08 AM
men, would you date a woman with children?? and ladies, would you date a man with children?? for me, ive been there and done that, and i wouldnt again. be interesting to see your replies.

soldierforamerica Joined Wed 10/24/07 Posts: 3813	Thu 04/10/08 07:10 AM
it really depends first you need to make sure you have hte same views on parenting that can be a major issue.. and if you want it to go further someday where you might be living together they must know that you arent going to let there children walk all over you

Queene123 Joined Tue 06/26/07 Posts: 17056	Thu 04/10/08 07:11 AM
yes i have, and i would do it again, i dont see a problem in that.

ellgee1976 Joined Sat 10/28/06 Posts: 7296	Thu 04/10/08 07:11 AM
sure would.. i see children as an attraction, dad's know what it's like to have their little arms wrap tightly around your neck, when they whisper in your ear that they love you.. or how they rock you and sing to you at the same time, the song they learned in school...even if it's only twinkle twinkle little star it literally rips at your heart, and makes you smile at the same time dad's know that, mom's know that...but those who haven't had children don't know it

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Thu 04/10/08 07:12 AM
it really depends first you need to make sure you have hte same views on parenting that can be a major issue.. and if you want it to go further someday where you might be living together they must know that you arent going to let there children walk all over you thanks for that, interesting

pili Joined Mon 02/18/08 Posts: 408	Thu 04/10/08 07:12 AM
Yes!

froglittlesis Joined Mon 03/10/08 Posts: 776	Thu 04/10/08 07:12 AM
I personally never had any children and I can't have children. I can honestly say it all depends if I love him and want to be with him then yes I will deal with it if he has kids.Do they live at home with him?

Danette_Giavanna Joined Tue 01/01/08 Posts: 1273	Thu 04/10/08 07:12 AM
I prefer to date a man with children, as I'm a single mother myself. I have found it very hard to to be with a single man that has no children and try to have him understand that my children always come first..That and my career...

pili Joined Mon 02/18/08 Posts: 408	Thu 04/10/08 07:13 AM
sure would.. i see children as an attraction, dad's know what it's like to have their little arms wrap tightly around your neck, when they whisper in your ear that they love you.. or how they rock you and sing to you at the same time, the song they learned in school...even if it's only twinkle twinkle little star it literally rips at your heart, and makes you smile at the same time dad's know that, mom's know that...but those who haven't had children don't know it

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Thu 04/10/08 07:13 AM
I personally never had any children and I can't have children. I can honestly say it all depends if I love him and want to be with him then yes I will deal with it if he has kids.Do they live at home with him? im not in this situation, i just wanted peoples views on the subject.

AllenAqua Joined Wed 01/09/08 Posts: 3895	Thu 04/10/08 07:15 AM
sure I would... I like kids

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Thu 04/10/08 07:15 AM
I prefer to date a man with children, as I'm a single mother myself. I have found it very hard to to be with a single man that has no children and try to have him understand that my children always come first..That and my career... thats nice.

dodger1953 Joined Wed 03/19/08 Posts: 590	Thu 04/10/08 07:16 AM
sure would.. i see children as an attraction, dad's know what it's like to have their little arms wrap tightly around your neck, when they whisper in your ear that they love you.. or how they rock you and sing to you at the same time, the song they learned in school...even if it's only twinkle twinkle little star it literally rips at your heart, and makes you smile at the same time dad's know that, mom's know that...but those who haven't had children don't know it well put ell. i know my pups give me advice for dating and they are 25,21,8 yrs. old.!

miksit29 Joined Wed 04/02/08 Posts: 108	Thu 04/10/08 07:18 AM
sure would.. i see children as an attraction, dad's know what it's like to have their little arms wrap tightly around your neck, when they whisper in your ear that they love you.. or how they rock you and sing to you at the same time, the song they learned in school...even if it's only twinkle twinkle little star it literally rips at your heart, and makes you smile at the same time dad's know that, mom's know that...but those who haven't had children don't know it i don't agree that those who don't have children don't know. I don't have children and I will never be able to have my own, but I work with kids, teens, and let me tell you when one of them hugs me and tells me about their day it makes my heart sing.

bttrflyv2 Joined Mon 12/04/06 Posts: 1880	Thu 04/10/08 07:19 AM
kids to me are not issues but blessings..yes I would date someone with kids being as I have 2 myself......

ellgee1976 Joined Sat 10/28/06 Posts: 7296	Thu 04/10/08 07:20 AM
well put ell. i know my pups give me advice for dating and they are 25,21,8 yrs. old.! i hear that..my middle child, Karlee, i told her one day after seein a fairly attractive guy here in town, that i thought he was cute...she laughed and told me "yeah he is mom!" (she's 10)

debbie1980 Joined Sun 09/09/07 Posts: 20487	Thu 04/10/08 07:20 AM
sure would.. i see children as an attraction, dad's know what it's like to have their little arms wrap tightly around your neck, when they whisper in your ear that they love you.. or how they rock you and sing to you at the same time, the song they learned in school...even if it's only twinkle twinkle little star it literally rips at your heart, and makes you smile at the same time dad's know that, mom's know that...but those who haven't had children don't know it i don't agree that those who don't have children don't know. I don't have children and I will never be able to have my own, but I work with kids, teens, and let me tell you when one of them hugs me and tells me about their day it makes my heart sing. i TOTALLY AGREE. ive got no children, but me and my mom practically bought my neice up, shes 6 now, so i DO KNOW. I love her like shes my own.

ellgee1976 Joined Sat 10/28/06 Posts: 7296	Thu 04/10/08 07:21 AM
i don't agree that those who don't have children don't know. I don't have children and I will never be able to have my own, but I work with kids, teens, and let me tell you when one of them hugs me and tells me about their day it makes my heart sing. agreed, however, when it's your own child, it's 10 times better

dodger1953 Joined Wed 03/19/08 Posts: 590	Thu 04/10/08 07:21 AM
sure would.. i see children as an attraction, dad's know what it's like to have their little arms wrap tightly around your neck, when they whisper in your ear that they love you.. or how they rock you and sing to you at the same time, the song they learned in school...even if it's only twinkle twinkle little star it literally rips at your heart, and makes you smile at the same time dad's know that, mom's know that...but those who haven't had children don't know it i don't agree that those who don't have children don't know. I don't have children and I will never be able to have my own, but I work with kids, teens, and let me tell you when one of them hugs me and tells me about their day it makes my heart sing. world needs more of you girl!

wildsideof35 Joined Sat 08/04/07 Posts: 2189	Thu 04/10/08 07:22 AM
I have a 16 year old son and I married my husband when my son was about 2 and he has been a good father to him...would I do it again...sure...and I still would have married him if he had kids...