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Topic: Need simple advice
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Wed 04/09/08 06:56 PM
please no bashing. Anyway, I guess I was supposed to call someone last night and didnt.. i wasn't really told to, but I was expected to. Anyway, she texted me this morning apologizing for getting mad and we chatted, but I was wondering should I call her?? I don't want to tell her cuz she told me maybe I should have taken a chance (when i said i didnt want to call without permission)

bastet126's photo
Wed 04/09/08 06:58 PM
permission? to call? all seems a little childish. huh

Dreamer01's photo
Wed 04/09/08 06:58 PM
I think you should call her or if you live close to her, surprise her with a visit:).

irad8you's photo
Wed 04/09/08 06:59 PM
Why not, give it a shot

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Wed 04/09/08 06:59 PM
I met her on another site.. so a visit wouldn't work. I know it sounds childish, but I'm not smart with this stuff.

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Wed 04/09/08 07:00 PM
If she got mad then I guess you should call her. Honestly women, which yes I know I am one, but we are dumb like that. We will tell you everything not to do. but never what you should do. I would randomly call her and suprise her. I feel like she would like that.

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Wed 04/09/08 07:00 PM
Nobody is smart with this stuff, don't worry

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Wed 04/09/08 07:01 PM
Just call her already! drinker

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Wed 04/09/08 07:01 PM

Nobody is smart with this stuff, don't worry


That's the truest post in ages!

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Wed 04/09/08 07:02 PM
If you are interested... call her. She has expressed, by getting mad that you didn't call, that she wanted you to call.

looook's photo
Wed 04/09/08 07:02 PM

If she got mad then I guess you should call her. Honestly women, which yes I know I am one, but we are dumb like that. We will tell you everything not to do. but never what you should do. I would randomly call her and suprise her. I feel like she would like that.

Awww you are not dumb.flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou

looook's photo
Wed 04/09/08 07:02 PM
If you want something in life, go get it.

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Wed 04/09/08 07:03 PM

If you are interested... call her. She has expressed, by getting mad that you didn't call, that she wanted you to call.

I'm beyond interested.. just a wee bit nervous. I'm gonna call.. I'll post how it went and see if it paid off or not

bubblejug6's photo
Wed 04/09/08 07:03 PM


If she got mad then I guess you should call her. Honestly women, which yes I know I am one, but we are dumb like that. We will tell you everything not to do. but never what you should do. I would randomly call her and suprise her. I feel like she would like that.

Awww you are not dumb.flowerforyou flowerforyou flowerforyou


no in all honesty women over think everything. and in that we actually miss things. its quite a dumb process

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Wed 04/09/08 07:05 PM
Maybe she wanted you to take control of the situation...sometimes a woman needs a man to pursue her..and be in control....however if she threw a childish fit about it..she may be a little too needy...sounds to me like you were just trying to be a gentleman..but we're only reading one side of the story here....yours...if you told her you were going to call and didnt thats on you....the worst thing you can do to a woman is repeatedly let her down....

Peccy's photo
Wed 04/09/08 07:06 PM
Permission?huh huh huh huh

irad8you's photo
Wed 04/09/08 07:06 PM

Maybe she wanted you to take control of the situation...sometimes a woman needs a man to pursue her..and be in control....however if she threw a childish fit about it..she may be a little too needy...sounds to me like you were just trying to be a gentleman..but we're only reading one side of the story here....yours...if you told her you were going to call and didnt thats on you....the worst thing you can do to a woman is repeatedly let her down....
love

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Wed 04/09/08 07:06 PM


If you are interested... call her. She has expressed, by getting mad that you didn't call, that she wanted you to call.

I'm beyond interested.. just a wee bit nervous. I'm gonna call.. I'll post how it went and see if it paid off or not


flowerforyou good luck!!

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Wed 04/09/08 07:06 PM
I wish someone wanted me to callsad sad

Shaden's photo
Wed 04/09/08 07:07 PM
Yes, call her. I was recently asked if it was alright to be called and found it sensitive. :smile:

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