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It's only over if you want it to be over....
But since you've reached out to people here, I think you want to give it another try. So post a pic, jump in the forums, and have a little fun. The worse that can happen is you may make some new frinds... 
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I appreciate the responses I've received. Thank you...even the ones that stepped on my toes about my attitude. OUCH!;)
You are right. I do need to work on the negativity. I spent a long time being told repeatedly how utterly useless I am...I guess I've grown to believe it to the point that I am having a hard time seeing why anyone would ever want me around. I heard that from several of your respnses as well. It seems many relationships are full of negativity. As for the question about no'Prince Charming' (a comment in my profile)...I have decided I need to stop believing in fairy tale princes...there are alot of frogs out there (male and female alike) I wish people looked beyond the physical and saw that there are alot of amazing people not getting a chance because they don't look like Barbie or Ken! I want a nice man who can love me in spite of...and maybe even because of my imperfectios and give me the chance to do the same...more fairy tales I guess. Does happily ever after really exist? Again thanks! |
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i'm 46 and haven't given up
 Hold your head up and you will meet someone....
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Yep, 44 and like Koolbeeze I'll keep on swinging. Don't believe what you were told about being worthless, we are what we make of ourselves. Try to get comfortable in your own skin, makes some friends, and take your time...you're still a youngster!
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Edited by
wickedlluccy
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Wed 04/23/08 05:06 PM
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I know...it's hopeless, right? I'm 38, rather shy, and spent 19 years married raising kids. I never expected to ever be doing this again and have no clue how or where to meet people, how to interact with them after I do, or how relationships work these days. I am becoming convinced I'm too old and ugly to even think I'll ever even find anyone to spend time with...let alone anything more. Beyond giving up and becoming the crazy old cat woman, is there any hope? If not, please honestly just say so. Thank you. ....OMG boxer is 38 and I'm over 10 yrs older than him ( I must be a corpse)....give me a break, sweety there's always hope, but you gota want it, get good and hungry for it like anything in life !!! And "it" being the operative word is whatever you want "it" to be....for me it is a sexy, smart, handsome, single workin guy....I have fat ripe red cherries all over my one armed bandit....  ...I hit a big time jack pot ! right here on JSH !!!  ~wicked~
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Sounds like your still upset about the split. Give it some time and figure out who you are and what you truly want. Enjoy your activities that make you happy, and maybe Mr. Right will find you there.
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Sounds like your still upset about the split. Give it some time and figure out who you are and what you truly want. Enjoy your activities that make you happy, and maybe Mr. Right will find you there. oh ya, 38 ISN'T old. Far from it. |
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