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Topic: an obsessive ex
Peccy's photo
Tue 04/08/08 04:39 PM
would you date someone who had one just to help them out? (addnote: this is not me, haven't talked to mine in well over a year and a half)

NeedaLife's photo
Tue 04/08/08 04:41 PM
For a true friend, yes in a heartbeat, as long as the obsessive ex wasn't violent. Then I would have to think about what repercussions that could have on my life and kids. (The kids always come before friends.)

no photo
Tue 04/08/08 04:43 PM
I have, and conceivably would do so again, in the right situation.


lilith401's photo
Tue 04/08/08 04:43 PM
No. That helps nothing. :angry:

If they want to lie.. they can make up an ex from band camp now living in Canada.

Etrain's photo
Tue 04/08/08 04:44 PM
nope...ex is an ex for a reason

MirrorMirror's photo
Tue 04/08/08 04:45 PM
smokin nopesmokin

Lily0923's photo
Tue 04/08/08 04:45 PM
Edited by Lily0923 on Tue 04/08/08 04:55 PM
My ex and I get along very well, we help each other out when needed, but we have boundries... and don't cross them. His life is his, and mine is mine.

I mis read the question...

Hell no I don't date my ex..... or anything else for that matter.

irad8you's photo
Tue 04/08/08 04:45 PM

nope...ex is an ex for a reason
Ditto, double ditto, triple fricking ditto

NeedaLife's photo
Tue 04/08/08 04:48 PM

No. That helps nothing. :angry:

If they want to lie.. they can make up an ex from band camp now living in Canada.

Does dating someone mean you are lying. I would think it just shows the ex they are moving on with someone else. Dating doesn't have to mean something serious does it? I've certainly dated people with whom I've had no intention of getting seriously involved.

lilith401's photo
Tue 04/08/08 04:50 PM
The question was date "just" to help them out. That sounds like lying to me. JMO

katrina_4888's photo
Tue 04/08/08 04:51 PM
wow...i was just talking to my good friend whose ex won't leave her alone...and then i saw this topic.

i'm not sure that dating someone else would make the situation any better. then besides being obsessed, they would probably be heartbroken and jealous as well.

Lily0923's photo
Tue 04/08/08 04:55 PM

The question was date "just" to help them out. That sounds like lying to me. JMO


I was confused by the wording...

Hell no I don't date my ex..... It's called a break up because it's broken....

Peccy's photo
Tue 04/08/08 05:07 PM

would you date someone who had one just to help them out? (addnote: this is not me, haven't talked to mine in well over a year and a half)
would you date a person that had one, not yours!

lilith401's photo
Tue 04/08/08 05:08 PM


would you date someone who had one just to help them out? (addnote: this is not me, haven't talked to mine in well over a year and a half)
would you date a person that had one, not yours!


Yep. I got it. Both times. flowerforyou

Thanks though.

NeedaLife's photo
Tue 04/08/08 05:09 PM


would you date someone who had one just to help them out? (addnote: this is not me, haven't talked to mine in well over a year and a half)
would you date a person that had one, not yours!

I was beginning to think I missed the meaning of the question after reading all the comments.

Totage's photo
Tue 04/08/08 05:09 PM
Edited by Totage on Tue 04/08/08 05:10 PM

would you date someone who had one just to help them out? (addnote: this is not me, haven't talked to mine in well over a year and a half)


No, but I would help them out. After things calmed down, who knows...

Peccy's photo
Tue 04/08/08 05:09 PM



would you date someone who had one just to help them out? (addnote: this is not me, haven't talked to mine in well over a year and a half)
would you date a person that had one, not yours!


Yep. I got it. Both times. flowerforyou

Thanks though.
lol.....was talking to Lilyflowerforyou

lilith401's photo
Tue 04/08/08 05:10 PM

lol.....was talking to Lilyflowerforyou


Oh. Okay!

DTHRomeo's photo
Tue 04/08/08 05:12 PM
I can't say that i would

TxsGal3333's photo
Tue 04/08/08 05:12 PM


nope...ex is an ex for a reason
Ditto, double ditto, triple fricking ditto


Super DITTO that one!

And yes we are on speaking terms but date and ex no way for no reason shshhs they got themselves into it let them get out of it lollaugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

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