Topic: ummm, yea.
standalone1987's photo
Mon 04/07/08 12:04 AM
well. i've been up this late because my grandpa has been in the hospital, and well about 30minutes ago just got a call, he passed away... how the hell are you suppose to deal w/letting go of someone when you never even got to say bye.....

itsmetina's photo
Mon 04/07/08 12:05 AM
i'm sorry for your lossflowerforyou

Army_Strong's photo
Mon 04/07/08 12:05 AM
I know the feeling man. It's hard. Sorry to hear about your grandpa though. The important thing is they knew you loved them. Best wishes.

-Don

Jaden11's photo
Mon 04/07/08 12:06 AM
I'm sorry dude. I went through that one summer with both of my grandma's (all the grandparents are now dead). Were you close?

IndnPrncs's photo
Mon 04/07/08 12:06 AM
I'm so sorry stand.. It's hard when that happens.. I lost my grandmother last February... We were very close and it broke my heart.. the one thing that I do know is that she know how much I truly loved her and if I had known I would have been with her no matter what...

My condolences and prayers... flowerforyou

standalone1987's photo
Mon 04/07/08 12:07 AM
yea, i was really close w/him, he raised me till i was about 12 and we always went hunting and fishing together, he was more of a father to me than anyone

Jaden11's photo
Mon 04/07/08 12:11 AM
I guess just remember the great memories you've had and that even if you didn't get to say all the things you wish you had, he knew it. You won't ever forget him, just learn to be okay with his memory in time. I wish you well, being with the rest of your family should help

no photo
Mon 04/07/08 12:14 AM

yea, i was really close w/him, he raised me till i was about 12 and we always went hunting and fishing together, he was more of a father to me than anyone


dude...i am so sorry for your loss. It is not easy when someone we love leaves us. Just try to remember all the good times and remember he is no longer suffering.

And remember grieving is different for everyone...some take longer than others to "get past it" took me 10 years to be able to talk about my dad without crying my eyes out.

Hope you heal soon...hugggz

soundedmind's photo
Mon 04/07/08 12:17 AM
It is so awesome that you guys were close. Seriously.


And you will ALWAYS have all of those great memories.


And I know that he knew that you loved him.


It's not so much saying goodbye, more like,"see you later"

nonchalantwendy's photo
Mon 04/07/08 12:24 AM
Sorry for your loss, it is never easy.........I'm sure he knew you loved him......remember the goodtimes.....I am sure that is how he wants to be remembered.......flowerforyou