The last chick i dated was a virgin and she wanted to wait to get married..but she wasn't marriage material.

Well, my advice would be to talk to him and see how he feels and tell him how you feel about it.

I know it's not the 'norm' these days, that's for sure!

I actually could be called the same thing..religious virgin..though I don't particularly like it put that way. I just know that I am a Christian, I love to attend church, witness to others (no, I don't badger people about it, I just share my story at appropriate times) and I just LOVE Jesus :)

My beliefs are to wait on marriage to have sex. I can't say that's how it's going to be, no ifs ands or buts, but that's how I feel as of now.

I don't look down on anyone else for NOT choosing those ideals though.

Just my two cents :)

~Holly Sarah~