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I see this in profiles all the time "not into game playing" does anybody have a idea what this means? Maybe if I knew what it means I could avoid it.
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I see this in profiles all the time "not into game playing" does anybody have a idea what this means? Maybe if I knew what it means I could avoid it.
It means "I've been hurt and I'm vulnerable and I'm too dumb to realize that putting this information into a profile actually makes me more of a target for game players and abusers who are slick enough to perceive what easy prey I am going to be." |
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I don't know if men put that there or not, but, seems to be the ladies use it for the statement "If you talk to me, you cannot talk to any other ladies. One word to me means we are gonna get married and you better act like it!!!!"
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I see this in profiles all the time "not into game playing" does anybody have a idea what this means? Maybe if I knew what it means I could avoid it.
It means "I've been hurt and I'm vulnerable and I'm too dumb to realize that putting this information into a profile actually makes me more of a target for game players and abusers who are slick enough to perceive what easy prey I am going to be." |
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What kinda games are we talking about ?
But seriously don't we all play games in a way,like a chess game I make a move you make a move.And what about the fun of the chase.Women aren't the only ones who write "not into games" so I do like they ask and move on to the next one.My thought is we've probably all been hurt at some point in our relationships. And I agree that you probably going to draw the game players to you by putting it out there. |
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What kinda games are we talking about ?
Thats what I would like to know too. 
We will have to wait till one of those players tells us what its all about. |
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What kinda games are we talking about ?
Thats what I would like to know too.
We will have to wait till one of those players tells us what its all about. I'm waiting
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What kinda games are we talking about ?
Thats what I would like to know too.
We will have to wait till one of those players tells us what its all about. I'm waiting
we may have a long wait I dont think anyone is going to admit being a player.... what ever that means.
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I hope it ain't scrabble..I s..k at that game
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What kinda games are we talking about ?
Thats what I would like to know too.
We will have to wait till one of those players tells us what its all about. I'm waiting
we may have a long wait I dont think anyone is going to admit being a player.... what ever that means.
Kicking my own butt tonight.Just found out someone I am interested in is married. No ring.Any suggestions on how to find out in the future before I make a donkey's behind out of myself.
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What kinda games are we talking about ?
Thats what I would like to know too.
We will have to wait till one of those players tells us what its all about. I'm waiting
we may have a long wait I dont think anyone is going to admit being a player.... what ever that means.
Kicking my own butt tonight.Just found out someone I am interested in is married. No ring.Any suggestions on how to find out in the future before I make a donkey's behind out of myself.
Yes. Stay away from men. |
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I have not dated enough to really know, but I have observed some of my friends and the way they deal with dates/boyfriends/girlfriends, etc., and it made me glad that I don't date. It is all about having the upper hand in the relationship. I have seen people going through power struggles that would exhaust me; second-guessing each other; spying on each other.
Game-playing implies a certain lack of trust and respect. I am not certain what people do get out of it. |
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Should we look up gameplaying on the internet?How can we specify what type if we don't know what is meant by that term lol oh I'm giving myself a headach.
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Should we look up gameplaying on the internet?How can we specify what type if we don't know what is meant by that term lol oh I'm giving myself a headach.
or, you could look at my reply above you. |
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Should we look up gameplaying on the internet?How can we specify what type if we don't know what is meant by that term lol oh I'm giving myself a headach.
or, you could look at my reply above you. 
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Should we look up gameplaying on the internet?How can we specify what type if we don't know what is meant by that term lol oh I'm giving myself a headach.
or, you could look at my reply above you.
me too! 
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I see this in profiles all the time "not into game playing" does anybody have a idea what this means? Maybe if I knew what it means I could avoid it.
Hey,Did you start this topic then leave?
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I see this in profiles all the time "not into game playing" does anybody have a idea what this means? Maybe if I knew what it means I could avoid it.
Hey,Did you start this topic then leave?
He takes hours between posts. I am used to him. |
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Edited by
moman65672
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Sat 04/05/08 07:10 PM
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Kicking my own butt tonight.Just found out someone I am interested in is married. No ring.Any suggestions on how to find out in the future before I make a donkey's behind out of myself.
Did you ask him if he was married? I never wore one due to my job working around high voltage. |
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 I see this in profiles all the time "not into game playing" does anybody have a idea what this means? Maybe if I knew what it means I could avoid it.
Hey,Did you start this topic then leave?
He takes hours between posts. I am used to him. Are we alone out here? |
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