Topic: tell me
sofarfromhome's photo
Fri 04/04/08 08:45 PM
is there anything else i should say or do to my profile, i know i should add more pics but all the other ones i have are of me and my daughters and honestly there are to many freaks out there to be putting them on here, so let me know what you think

hikerchick's photo
Fri 04/04/08 08:54 PM
Honestly I don't like shirtless pics but that is my personal preference.

Your essay is very short. More detail would be nice. I would leave out the part about loving your ex-wife. If you could tell us more about yourself , who you are looking for, what you love to do, what makes you happy, etc., that would help. Good luck and have fun.flowerforyou

PacificStar48's photo
Fri 04/04/08 09:11 PM
Son I know you are hurting but you need to pretty much start over on this profile and some of your thinking.
Triple blessed no mater where your Angels live they are going to be better off with a Daddy who lets himself self find comfort in forgiveness and grace and the fact that he has a life to move forward. That doesn't mean you condone anyone who had betrayed you only that you know you are worth better. and that better will find you. If you don't the anger will destroy you and drive off anyone who is not miserable too.
Tell people that you are young, resilient,have interests, and still have desires to be a be a great Dad and someone significant in a good persons life. There are a lot of really amazing people in JSH.
I see so much potential in you and your on the right track opening new doors. Bring a little light in the room and things will turn around.
I agree you are smart to not put pictures on the web of your triplets. Not so much from the freaks, yes they are out there and yea I think it is wise to be careful, but more so because they will get enough attention being multiples. There are great organizations for parents and I hope you check them out. Many families fall apart under the strain so you will not be the only non-custodial parent.
But beyond that you deserve and identity besides so far from home. Home is in your heart. You might not be there but point yourself toward it and I am sure someone wonderful will be glad to join you in the journey.
You are right I would not use this as a lead pic any longer than you have to but it is interesting composition weather by chance or intent so don't scrap it.
Good Luck I will be praying for you...Grandma Joy

sofarfromhome's photo
Fri 04/04/08 09:13 PM
well i fixed it up

FireOfThePhoenix's photo
Fri 04/04/08 09:20 PM
flowerforyou Welcome and have fun drinker

You're profile could still use a little bit more details, but besides that it looks much better!!

Love your daughters names btw :smile:

Bry395's photo
Fri 04/04/08 09:31 PM
Welcome to jsh, I agree, post a few more pics of you smiling and with a shirt on. Your daughter's name are beautiful! Best of luck to you in your search for happiness.