Topic: Hard to find a date
hikerchick's photo
Fri 04/04/08 05:40 PM


We only like nice guys.



Don't start...noway

Am I going to have to thwap you?


Yes, please.

no photo
Fri 04/04/08 05:40 PM

why is it so hard for women, to find a man????????????
is it really that hard for women??????????????

hikerchick's photo
Fri 04/04/08 05:42 PM


why is it so hard for women, to find a man????????????
is it really that hard for women??????????????


yes, it is.

bastet126's photo
Fri 04/04/08 05:43 PM


why is it so hard for women, to find a man????????????
is it really that hard for women??????????????


well think about it -- if they guys can't find a woman, who are the women dating then?? hmmm?

hikerchick's photo
Fri 04/04/08 05:44 PM



why is it so hard for women, to find a man????????????
is it really that hard for women??????????????


well think about it -- if they guys can't find a woman, who are the women dating then?? hmmm?


I was thinking that same thing.

Do the math!

FearandLoathing's photo
Fri 04/04/08 05:44 PM
Try "Mutual Match" to find the women you want near you....

Salemite's photo
Fri 04/04/08 05:46 PM



why is it so hard for women, to find a man????????????
is it really that hard for women??????????????


well think about it -- if they guys can't find a woman, who are the women dating then?? hmmm?


Other women?

68chevy's photo
Fri 04/04/08 05:46 PM



why is it so hard for women, to find a man????????????
is it really that hard for women??????????????


well think about it -- if they guys can't find a woman, who are the women dating then?? hmmm?


Sorry, but is that a spittoon you are holding??

backdock1's photo
Fri 04/04/08 05:46 PM


why is it so hard for women, to find a man????????????
is it really that hard for women??????????????


Here's my take on it. The hot women get way too much attention and then get attitudes because they've got deals thrown at them all day long. Emails to no end, another deal, another deal. Then they don't know what they want and they bang all the hot guys who can't remember their names and then they say they just want a nice guy to like them. Which is BS because when a nice guy comes along she trashes him and uses and abuses and then goes home with another hot guy and the cycle repeats.

For the average looking women and men, there's nothing going on and it's a long slow process to find the right one.

Dating sites for me are OK but I'm not Brad Pitt and it seems to be a long slow process. Oh well, back to the search.

Don't be hating on me for my opinion which is all is. Comments welcome.

hikerchick's photo
Fri 04/04/08 05:49 PM



why is it so hard for women, to find a man????????????
is it really that hard for women??????????????


Here's my take on it. The hot women get way too much attention and then get attitudes because they've got deals thrown at them all day long. Emails to no end, another deal, another deal. Then they don't know what they want and they bang all the hot guys who can't remember their names and then they say they just want a nice guy to like them. Which is BS because when a nice guy comes along she trashes him and uses and abuses and then goes home with another hot guy and the cycle repeats.

For the average looking women and men, there's nothing going on and it's a long slow process to find the right one.

Dating sites for me are OK but I'm not Brad Pitt and it seems to be a long slow process. Oh well, back to the search.

Don't be hating on me for my opinion which is all is. Comments welcome.


You look like Brad Pitt to me!love love love

backdock1's photo
Fri 04/04/08 05:53 PM
blushing blushing blushing blushing

Yeah right!!!

bastet126's photo
Fri 04/04/08 05:53 PM




why is it so hard for women, to find a man????????????
is it really that hard for women??????????????


well think about it -- if they guys can't find a woman, who are the women dating then?? hmmm?


Other women?


now, there's an idea :wink:

backdock1's photo
Fri 04/04/08 05:54 PM
OK, thanks.

<-----------------Brad snuggles hikers neck and gives her a slow gentle kiss

hikerchick's photo
Fri 04/04/08 05:55 PM

OK, thanks.

<-----------------Brad snuggles hikers neck and gives her a slow gentle kiss



love love love love

Is it warm in here?

hikerchick's photo
Fri 04/04/08 05:56 PM
Edited by hikerchick on Fri 04/04/08 05:56 PM





why is it so hard for women, to find a man????????????
is it really that hard for women??????????????


well think about it -- if they guys can't find a woman, who are the women dating then?? hmmm?


Other women?


now, there's an idea :wink:


It's looking better all the time. I have no problem getting chicks to fall for me.

Men hate me.

backdock1's photo
Fri 04/04/08 06:00 PM

The only guys I meet, I work with...that never works. frown


I don't work with you, maybe we could hang out!

brimstone's photo
Fri 04/04/08 06:10 PM


Lower the qualifications


I am about to do just that...laugh laugh laugh


Does that mean...lower your standards? huh laugh

PacificStar48's photo
Fri 04/04/08 06:26 PM
Hmmmm Lets see what guys are offering now days; maybe that has something to do with it.

"Friends with Benifits"
Sounds like a guy to cheap to pay for a hooker. Or a guy who is laid off and doesn't have a benifit package of his own.
Either way you are supporting his kitty cat.

"Ask me any question you want"
Sounds like a guy to dumb to talk about himself. Or to stupid to read the the profile ques. Either way it is obvious dodge to lieing which is probably what made him single.

"I like the outdoors"
Ok does that mean you cook out of a trash can, sleep on a grate, and walk to work? I am sure not going to dance with a bear just to have a cave to winter in. Maybe his wife or kids work at the mall.

"Love me Love my Dogs" or five cats.
Why would I want to share your fleas? Isn't their animal cruelty laws?

"My kids come first"
Yea right that is what you tell the judge but is your childsupport paid and am I suppose to be a "step-girlfriend" or a co-parent. Parity or forget it.

"I am a great kisser"
According to who? Clyde the Chimp? Or Suzy at the strip club?

"I live with my Mom to help her out."
Help her out of bed? Change her diaper? Or run to the ligour store to cash her social security check?

"I am a Rennisance man"
Does that mean you beheaded your ex-wife and are out early as a felon or leave your garbage on the table?

"I want a woman who is fit"
Fit for what? Marathons, mudwrestleing, to push the car or a shopping cart with a weeks groceries? Please don't let it be fit to be tied.

"I don't know what to say here"
Wow talking to you face to face will be like pulling teeth for sure. How did you ever get past a job interview? Did your wife do all the talking? I will bet that will be an Ex-wife-in-law from hell.

"I will take you anywhere you want to go"
Yea right as long as it has a drive through window and and or a room key.

"I like to play golf, hunt, watch Nascar, ride my Harley, and video games."
Ok fine call me when you do something a woman has a part in before we hit the sheets.

" I have a great room mate."
Ok so when you decide you like me better what are you going to do with him? Oh it is a her. Does she know she is the "until then"? If you can't afford to live on your own how are you going to support a girlfriend much less a wife.

"I let the wife have the house for the kids."
Sure. So it is how many years until you see your share of that financial pit? Or are you going to let the kids just live off of you forever? Man I wish I had her lawyer. No she will have her hands in your pockets forever.

"Wow you really have it together"
Yea some of us have to figure out how we are going to make it in this world weather we like it or not.

"I want to meet my soulmate"
Honey that is about as stale as soul train and sounds more like I am going to be crushed by the sole of your boot than much anything else.

"I hate drama"
Well if you know that you probably have lived it and I don't want the gorey details.

ok ok enough rant but you get the idea.......




Salemite's photo
Fri 04/04/08 06:41 PM
*whew*

I managed to dodge every float on your hate-parade!

hikerchick's photo
Fri 04/04/08 06:50 PM
"I like the outdoors"
Ok does that mean you cook out of a trash can, sleep on a grate, and walk to work? I am sure not going to dance with a bear just to have a cave to winter in. Maybe his wife or kids work at the mall.


Some people like to camp and hike; it doesn't make us hoboes.

"Love me Love my Dogs" or five cats.
Why would I want to share your fleas? Isn't their animal cruelty laws?


It is cruel to have animals as pets? I am not sure what you mean, here, Pacific.

"My kids come first"
Yea right that is what you tell the judge but is your childsupport paid and am I suppose to be a "step-girlfriend" or a co-parent. Parity or forget it.


No decent parent would put anyone before their kids.Period. Ever. Only a selfish weenie would do that.

" I have a great room mate."
Ok so when you decide you like me better what are you going to do with him? Oh it is a her. Does she know she is the "until then"? If you can't afford to live on your own how are you going to support a girlfriend much less a wife.


Why would you expect a guy to support you? Can't you support yourself?

"I let the wife have the house for the kids."
Sure. So it is how many years until you see your share of that financial pit? Or are you going to let the kids just live off of you forever? Man I wish I had her lawyer. No she will have her hands in your pockets forever.


Do you feel he should simply toss his kids onto the street? I am not sure what you are getting at here. What kind of man do you want? One who hates animals and abandons his own children? Not the kind of guy I would want to be with, for sure.

Just surprised at your hard line on some of these things. You seem like a nice person, and this surprises me.flowerforyou