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WOW I think you may want to slow down?
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I meet a wonderful lady last weekend from this site, and she is like everything I ever wanted in a girl. I just want to propose to her so effing bad and spend my life with her. And we are talking about one of us moving in with each other already. Are we just crazy or has love struck us hard? Or should we take time and go slow and see what happens? Calm down, stop and take a deep breathe... Don't jump into anything too soon, slow it down a little and see how things go. |
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Gut intinct should never be discounted but Common sense needs to come into play. Slow down, take your time and enjoy each delicious step at a time. Talk about your past. Talk about the day to day; develope your overall understanding of each other once the blood starts getting back to your brain. Plan where your life is going a little bit. Don't mess up a really good thing by jumping in before you know if you can swim or not. Some issues need to be reviewed;lifestles, money, religion, family, children, how you are going to commit to each other. You don't necessarily need to know the destination but it can't hurt to map out and avoid some of the bumps in the road from driving blind.
Anyone who is so eager to ditch their life gives me pause and so should you........Good luck |
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I meet a wonderful lady last weekend from this site, and she is like everything I ever wanted in a girl. I just want to propose to her so effing bad and spend my life with her. And we are talking about one of us moving in with each other already. Are we just crazy or has love struck us hard? Or should we take time and go slow and see what happens? ...not to be a total b---h of a wet blanket, scientifically stated...the human brain is not physilogically hard wired till about the 25th year of life, with that said I checked out your profile & you have sometime before that rite of scientific passage befalls you, If know one is in peril of losing their life @ this time, take the time to find life and love together in a manner that has a chance of not being something you out grow in a couple of years...people use to marry in their teens and twenties because life expectancy was 20-40 yrs less than today.....grow together, not everyone has the gift of time.... ~wicked~ |
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Edited by
wickedlluccy
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Fri 04/04/08 05:56 PM
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sorry dbl post
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The fact that you are asking the question tells me that you already know that things are going way too fast. I hope you listen to yourself,,, or it will be a hard lesson learned. Best answer all thread. I was going to say something along these lines. |
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I meet a wonderful lady last weekend from this site, and she is like everything I ever wanted in a girl. I just want to propose to her so effing bad and spend my life with her. And we are talking about one of us moving in with each other already. Are we just crazy or has love struck us hard? Or should we take time and go slow and see what happens? Good for the both of you. I hope to find that kind of love! Follow your heart, it will not lie to you. I agree too if you are asking us our opinion, you might want to consider stepping back and do some soul searching and maybe ask her the question you asked us. Heart felt GOOD LUCK TO YOU BOTH! |
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Edited by
TheShadow
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Sat 04/05/08 05:23 PM
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I meet a wonderful lady last weekend from this site, and she is like everything I ever wanted in a girl. I just want to propose to her so effing bad and spend my life with her. And we are talking about one of us moving in with each other already. Are we just crazy or has love struck us hard? Or should we take time and go slow and see what happens? I'm sure most have said this. BUT ONE WEEK AND ALL THIS Put on the breaks man. It's a sure way to crash really hard by just jumping into a situation like this. The way your talking, it's like you haven't even asked her name yet lol |
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WTF..... WTF..... WTF..... WTF..... WTF..... WHOAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA DAAAAAAAAAAYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUMMMMMMMMMM |
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I meet a wonderful lady last weekend from this site, and she is like everything I ever wanted in a girl. I just want to propose to her so effing bad and spend my life with her. And we are talking about one of us moving in with each other already. Are we just crazy or has love struck us hard? Or should we take time and go slow and see what happens? I'd take it slowly. That's not love, that's infatuation. You can't know her very well after such a short period of time, and she could be totally insane for all you know. Slow down a bit. |
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thanks for the great advice everyone
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trust me you didnt fall in love in a week
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yeah, love is something earned over time. The kinda thing you have when you know everything about eachother, good and bad, and the both of you are cool with it. Slow down bro. Have a drink, relax and enjoy the infactuation while it lasts. It may grow into true love one day... So let it develop naturally.
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I meet a wonderful lady last weekend from this site, and she is like everything I ever wanted in a girl. I just want to propose to her so effing bad and spend my life with her. And we are talking about one of us moving in with each other already. Are we just crazy or has love struck us hard? Or should we take time and go slow and see what happens? Dude...you're 21 yrs. old, divorced and have kids already. You seriously need to stick your d!ck in a blender or rent a sheep. Do you live close to a nuclear power plant by any chance? |
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I meet a wonderful lady last weekend from this site, and she is like everything I ever wanted in a girl. I just want to propose to her so effing bad and spend my life with her. And we are talking about one of us moving in with each other already. Are we just crazy or has love struck us hard? Or should we take time and go slow and see what happens? Dude...you're 21 yrs. old, divorced and have kids already. You seriously need to stick your d!ck in a blender or rent a sheep. Do you live close to a nuclear power plant by any chance? just because im divorced and have a child wont stop me from beeing happy and falling in love again. there's no need for you to be so rude. |
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Love is a delicate balance which requires perfection in more than one area...that being said you have not known each other long enough to even get a delicate balance much less perfection in certain areas. If you go at it now you will fail in five or less years, stick together for at least three years then see if you still want to.
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good luck - my advice would be to slow it down, one should not propose after a wk but this is only my opinion, if it works for you yayyyyyyyyyyyy
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I meet a wonderful lady last weekend from this site, and she is like everything I ever wanted in a girl. I just want to propose to her so effing bad and spend my life with her. And we are talking about one of us moving in with each other already. Are we just crazy or has love struck us hard? Or should we take time and go slow and see what happens? |
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I meet a wonderful lady last weekend from this site, and she is like everything I ever wanted in a girl. I just want to propose to her so effing bad and spend my life with her. And we are talking about one of us moving in with each other already. Are we just crazy or has love struck us hard? Or should we take time and go slow and see what happens? Dude...you're 21 yrs. old, divorced and have kids already. You seriously need to stick your d!ck in a blender or rent a sheep. Do you live close to a nuclear power plant by any chance? OMG! Thats the funniest thing I've heard today! I'd like to say that to a couple of the kids that are from my neighborhood. 21 years old, divorced with kids, jesus, son, you are so screwed. Go live life, but you can't you have responsibilities now. Are you wealthy? Cause if your not, take the above mentioned advice. sorry dude, not picking on you |
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yup way way too soon!!!
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