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Topic: So what can ya do?
repochick Joined Thu 01/10/08 Posts: 108	Fri 04/04/08 08:52 AM
again...what's funny to one may not be funny to someone else. did you ask her why it bothered her so much? it may not have anything to do with the car Actually no we havent asked her but that is because she has decided not to talk to us at all anymore. The guy that moved her car tried to talk to her yesterday and I kid you not she acted like he wasnt even there!

repochick Joined Thu 01/10/08 Posts: 108	Fri 04/04/08 08:53 AM
Maybe she is just an overly dramatic baby who likes to make people feel guilty, and wants them to feel sorry for her. I would not grovel for this chick. She needs to get over herself. We have quite a few of them at work as it is but she has always seemed the sanest, most normal of all of them so we never thought she would be the one to react like this!

zanne46 Joined Sun 07/01/07 Posts: 5610	Fri 04/04/08 08:53 AM
Everybody involved move ur cars.... when all of u are outside to leave..with her around..all start freaking out..run around looking for ur cars... omg...if thats all u ppl did..she needs to get over it.. I think its funny.. I loose my car all the time... oh..thats because I am not driving my car..mine is in PA...lmao Same car ..same color but I seem to loose it here in FLA parking lots... I have to scare the elderly here by hitting the button...lol Just kiss her cheek and tell her its all ok and then be done with it..

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Fri 04/04/08 08:54 AM
again...what's funny to one may not be funny to someone else. did you ask her why it bothered her so much? it may not have anything to do with the car Actually no we havent asked her but that is because she has decided not to talk to us at all anymore. The guy that moved her car tried to talk to her yesterday and I kid you not she acted like he wasnt even there! so stay friends with your other "partners in crime" and let her sit and pout by herself as long as she wants to.

Muchacho Joined Sun 03/30/08 Posts: 1064	Fri 04/04/08 08:54 AM
well your right whats funny to someone else might not be funny to someone else but if the cant let it go then laugh about it later i would say look sorry wont happen again and just talk to tham only at work and thats it

repochick Joined Thu 01/10/08 Posts: 108	Fri 04/04/08 08:55 AM
Everybody involved move ur cars.... when all of u are outside to leave..with her around..all start freaking out..run around looking for ur cars... omg...if thats all u ppl did..she needs to get over it.. I think its funny.. I loose my car all the time... oh..thats because I am not driving my car..mine is in PA...lmao Same car ..same color but I seem to loose it here in FLA parking lots... I have to scare the elderly here by hitting the button...lol Just kiss her cheek and tell her its all ok and then be done with it.. One of our engineers thought it was funny as hell and he has a nicer car than she does. He even wanted to go up to her and ask her how she likes the valet parking. I would have rolled on the floor to see her face had he asked her!

yellowrose10 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 52804	Fri 04/04/08 08:56 AM
again...what's funny to one may not be funny to someone else. did you ask her why it bothered her so much? it may not have anything to do with the car Actually no we havent asked her but that is because she has decided not to talk to us at all anymore. The guy that moved her car tried to talk to her yesterday and I kid you not she acted like he wasnt even there! then let her cool down. she may have felt that her personal space was violated or may have had a bad day and feeling picked on. only she knows. my truck and car are not the most important in my life but i have worked hard for them. and if i thought someone stole it etc...i would be angry too. if you said sorry then let her cool down for a while, then tell her it wasn't your intentions to upset her. it could only be what's funny to one isn't funny to another

Muchacho Joined Sun 03/30/08 Posts: 1064	Fri 04/04/08 08:56 AM
Maybe she is just an overly dramatic baby who likes to make people feel guilty, and wants them to feel sorry for her. I would not grovel for this chick. She needs to get over herself. We have quite a few of them at work as it is but she has always seemed the sanest, most normal of all of them so we never thought she would be the one to react like this! most killers act normal shes probaly pissed cuz shes runing out of room for all the dead bodys so ruuuuuuuun

yellowrose10 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 52804	Fri 04/04/08 08:58 AM
well your right whats funny to someone else might not be funny to someone else but if the cant let it go then laugh about it later i would say look sorry wont happen again and just talk to tham only at work and thats it I totally agree, but not everyone can let it go as quick. there could be other factors that caused her to be that upset. may not even really have to do with the car

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Fri 04/04/08 08:58 AM
again...what's funny to one may not be funny to someone else. did you ask her why it bothered her so much? it may not have anything to do with the car Actually no we havent asked her but that is because she has decided not to talk to us at all anymore. The guy that moved her car tried to talk to her yesterday and I kid you not she acted like he wasnt even there! then let her cool down. she may have felt that her personal space was violated or may have had a bad day and feeling picked on. only she knows. my truck and car are not the most important in my life but i have worked hard for them. and if i thought someone stole it etc...i would be angry too. if you said sorry then let her cool down for a while, then tell her it wasn't your intentions to upset her. it could only be what's funny to one isn't funny to another even if she did not find it funny, at some point she needs to realize that the people who did it meant no harm. She does not have to find it funny herself to understand the spirit in which the act was done. It is not like they were being malicious.

yellowrose10 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 52804	Fri 04/04/08 09:00 AM
again...what's funny to one may not be funny to someone else. did you ask her why it bothered her so much? it may not have anything to do with the car Actually no we havent asked her but that is because she has decided not to talk to us at all anymore. The guy that moved her car tried to talk to her yesterday and I kid you not she acted like he wasnt even there! then let her cool down. she may have felt that her personal space was violated or may have had a bad day and feeling picked on. only she knows. my truck and car are not the most important in my life but i have worked hard for them. and if i thought someone stole it etc...i would be angry too. if you said sorry then let her cool down for a while, then tell her it wasn't your intentions to upset her. it could only be what's funny to one isn't funny to another even if she did not find it funny, at some point she needs to realize that the people who did it meant no harm. She does not have to find it funny herself to understand the spirit in which the act was done. It is not like they were being malicious. I never said they were...it's obvious they wanted to play a joke and have fun. I did say that there could have been something else going on. there is not a specific amount of "healing" time for everyone. if they said sorry, they need to let her cool down. they tried to make amends...so it's on her now

repochick Joined Thu 01/10/08 Posts: 108	Fri 04/04/08 09:01 AM
again...what's funny to one may not be funny to someone else. did you ask her why it bothered her so much? it may not have anything to do with the car Actually no we havent asked her but that is because she has decided not to talk to us at all anymore. The guy that moved her car tried to talk to her yesterday and I kid you not she acted like he wasnt even there! then let her cool down. she may have felt that her personal space was violated or may have had a bad day and feeling picked on. only she knows. my truck and car are not the most important in my life but i have worked hard for them. and if i thought someone stole it etc...i would be angry too. if you said sorry then let her cool down for a while, then tell her it wasn't your intentions to upset her. it could only be what's funny to one isn't funny to another even if she did not find it funny, at some point she needs to realize that the people who did it meant no harm. She does not have to find it funny herself to understand the spirit in which the act was done. It is not like they were being malicious. I guess part of the reason she got so upset is because we didnt tell he rthe instant she came over to us. We made some jkes, had a few laughs and then she got upset and started walking back in the direction of where it had been before we told her. I guess that is part of what upset her so bad!!

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Fri 04/04/08 09:02 AM
again...what's funny to one may not be funny to someone else. did you ask her why it bothered her so much? it may not have anything to do with the car Actually no we havent asked her but that is because she has decided not to talk to us at all anymore. The guy that moved her car tried to talk to her yesterday and I kid you not she acted like he wasnt even there! then let her cool down. she may have felt that her personal space was violated or may have had a bad day and feeling picked on. only she knows. my truck and car are not the most important in my life but i have worked hard for them. and if i thought someone stole it etc...i would be angry too. if you said sorry then let her cool down for a while, then tell her it wasn't your intentions to upset her. it could only be what's funny to one isn't funny to another even if she did not find it funny, at some point she needs to realize that the people who did it meant no harm. She does not have to find it funny herself to understand the spirit in which the act was done. It is not like they were being malicious. I never said they were...it's obvious they wanted to play a joke and have fun. I did say that there could have been something else going on. there is not a specific amount of "healing" time for everyone. if they said sorry, they need to let her cool down. they tried to make amends...so it's on her now You are so right. But then, you usually are. Hey I know a guy in Texas who makes great BBQ

Muchacho Joined Sun 03/30/08 Posts: 1064	Fri 04/04/08 09:03 AM
<------- this guys oh yea

repochick Joined Thu 01/10/08 Posts: 108	Fri 04/04/08 09:03 AM
again...what's funny to one may not be funny to someone else. did you ask her why it bothered her so much? it may not have anything to do with the car Actually no we havent asked her but that is because she has decided not to talk to us at all anymore. The guy that moved her car tried to talk to her yesterday and I kid you not she acted like he wasnt even there! then let her cool down. she may have felt that her personal space was violated or may have had a bad day and feeling picked on. only she knows. my truck and car are not the most important in my life but i have worked hard for them. and if i thought someone stole it etc...i would be angry too. if you said sorry then let her cool down for a while, then tell her it wasn't your intentions to upset her. it could only be what's funny to one isn't funny to another even if she did not find it funny, at some point she needs to realize that the people who did it meant no harm. She does not have to find it funny herself to understand the spirit in which the act was done. It is not like they were being malicious. I never said they were...it's obvious they wanted to play a joke and have fun. I did say that there could have been something else going on. there is not a specific amount of "healing" time for everyone. if they said sorry, they need to let her cool down. they tried to make amends...so it's on her now Here's what I see happening since it already had. Yesterday we decided to give her her space and let her cool down since she was still so upset and that pissed her off because we werent over there trying to talk to her and apologize. Now if we give her space again she is just going to get more pissy because we arent kissing her ass!

yellowrose10 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 52804	Fri 04/04/08 09:04 AM
where in texas hiker??? my 2 friends (2 dirty ole men lol) make the best bbq i've ever had....it's just an hours drive is why i don't eat there alot

Muchacho Joined Sun 03/30/08 Posts: 1064	Fri 04/04/08 09:04 AM
again...what's funny to one may not be funny to someone else. did you ask her why it bothered her so much? it may not have anything to do with the car Actually no we havent asked her but that is because she has decided not to talk to us at all anymore. The guy that moved her car tried to talk to her yesterday and I kid you not she acted like he wasnt even there! then let her cool down. she may have felt that her personal space was violated or may have had a bad day and feeling picked on. only she knows. my truck and car are not the most important in my life but i have worked hard for them. and if i thought someone stole it etc...i would be angry too. if you said sorry then let her cool down for a while, then tell her it wasn't your intentions to upset her. it could only be what's funny to one isn't funny to another even if she did not find it funny, at some point she needs to realize that the people who did it meant no harm. She does not have to find it funny herself to understand the spirit in which the act was done. It is not like they were being malicious. I guess part of the reason she got so upset is because we didnt tell he rthe instant she came over to us. We made some jkes, had a few laughs and then she got upset and started walking back in the direction of where it had been before we told her. I guess that is part of what upset her so bad!! for shame now im not talking to u now give 5 mins and then i will talk to u and laugh about it

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Fri 04/04/08 09:05 AM
Here's what I see happening since it already had. Yesterday we decided to give her her space and let her cool down since she was still so upset and that pissed her off because we werent over there trying to talk to her and apologize. Now if we give her space again she is just going to get more pissy because we arent kissing her ass! I agree. She is feeling powerful right now and playing it for all it's worth.

yellowrose10 Joined Tue 12/11/07 Posts: 52804	Fri 04/04/08 09:05 AM
like I said....there might be other factors. it's on here now to make the move. if you have said sorry...then i's her choice how she acts and your choice on how you act

hikerchick Joined Sat 12/22/07 Posts: 13206	Fri 04/04/08 09:06 AM
where in texas hiker??? my 2 friends (2 dirty ole men lol) make the best bbq i've ever had....it's just an hours drive is why i don't eat there alot Lubbock. His name is Muchacho!