Topic: I know this has been talked about
forever_fifites's photo
Fri 04/04/08 01:17 AM
ad infinitum but does anyone know if the Mutual Match thing really works. Here is how I think it works.

You click on the Search tab > then Mutual Match >
then click the Find Matches Now Button on the left.
They run a stream of people by you and you click yes, no, or maybe. If you have clicked no they should have put that one in file 13, maybe and they will send it by you again. Click yes and they then run you by that person and if that person gives you a high five, i.e a yes you have a Mutual Match and their profile will show up under your Mutual Match bar.

But I think the thing has a bug or lots of bugs. There is one person whom I would be very interested in because she is actually nearby. I have emailed her and got no response yet she has reappeared in my Mutual Match file three more times. So what gives? BTW I am not a computer novice. I have been using what amounts to the Internet since 1967 when it was a network for the military only. The people who program JSH need to get up to speed.

Jill298's photo
Fri 04/04/08 01:19 AM
maybe since you emailed her and she didn't reply she's not interested?frown mutual match never works for meflowerforyou

forever_fifites's photo
Fri 04/04/08 01:20 AM
BTW ladies here's your chance to preempt that person.
She is not on-line right now. (hint) laugh

no photo
Fri 04/04/08 01:20 AM
all my matches are a million miles away....

Jill298's photo
Fri 04/04/08 01:20 AM
have you talked to this woman at all?

forever_fifites's photo
Fri 04/04/08 01:21 AM

maybe since you emailed her and she didn't reply she's not interested?frown mutual match never works for meflowerforyou


But then who put her back on to me again. It was weeks ago when I emailed and she has reappeared twice this week, at least once last week. Strange. Are one of you guys doing an April Fool hack on me?
laugh laugh laugh laugh laugh

no photo
Fri 04/04/08 01:22 AM
I never get any matches...poor me

forever_fifites's photo
Fri 04/04/08 01:22 AM

have you talked to this woman at all?


Well, I talked; she didn't reply back. LMAO

Jill298's photo
Fri 04/04/08 01:22 AM
laugh email her again... if she doesn't respond than start clicking NO on her

forever_fifites's photo
Fri 04/04/08 01:23 AM

I never get any matches...poor me


I'm not sure if the program will match that far. Heck, I used to live in Federal Way so I know where you're at. :wink:

forever_fifites's photo
Fri 04/04/08 01:25 AM

I never get any matches...poor me


I just listed you as a favorite. Let's see if we can get the JSH computer to hiccup. laugh

no photo
Fri 04/04/08 01:25 AM


I never get any matches...poor me


I'm not sure if the program will match that far. Heck, I used to live in Federal Way so I know where you're at. :wink:


I know Federal Way.

mssilverfox's photo
Fri 04/04/08 01:34 AM


have you talked to this woman at all?


Well, I talked; she didn't reply back. LMAO




Well it's not me as I live close and emailed you and didn't get a reply either :smile:

darkowl1's photo
Fri 04/04/08 01:37 AM
mutual match.........caught my ass on fire last time i lit one of those.

robert1652's photo
Fri 04/04/08 01:50 AM
Beleive it or not it is not the programme
That has happened to me too.
Worse she has already set criterion not to receive mail from certain category which blocks me but 3 times I have removed her from my mutual match and she appears hoping to get mail
I think this is what happens
As these people start arriving to their sell by date like most of us in our age group !!!! that includes me too, they sort of need to reassure themselves that they still have a pull factor and hence collect Emails etc to satisfy themselves. I have a written confession from a lady to that effect. So don't panic keep digging


ad infinitum but does anyone know if the Mutual Match thing really works. Here is how I think it works.

You click on the Search tab > then Mutual Match >
then click the Find Matches Now Button on the left.
They run a stream of people by you and you click yes, no, or maybe. If you have clicked no they should have put that one in file 13, maybe and they will send it by you again. Click yes and they then run you by that person and if that person gives you a high five, i.e a yes you have a Mutual Match and their profile will show up under your Mutual Match bar.

But I think the thing has a bug or lots of bugs. There is one person whom I would be very interested in because she is actually nearby. I have emailed her and got no response yet she has reappeared in my Mutual Match file three more times. So what gives? BTW I am not a computer novice. I have been using what amounts to the Internet since 1967 when it was a network for the military only. The people who program JSH need to get up to speed.

robert1652's photo
Fri 04/04/08 01:53 AM
May be you ask for a 12 year old chimp with a bank balance in inverse proportions to the size of his brains riding a white elephant


I never get any matches...poor me

boneyjoe's photo
Fri 04/04/08 02:30 AM
i've seen several that iwould like to ask out,,,,,,,,,,,,but they would say no so i'll just not ask