Topic: Why does style matter so much??
Lily0923's photo
Thu 04/03/08 12:23 PM


It doesn't all the time, but as a guy... you know what you like and don't... the Laura Ingles Wilder type, or the brittany Spears type... those are very differnt... Could you date either one? Would they date you?

I like the "dirty rocker boy" type... I love tatoos and find them very attractive... I love alternative life styles... so an accountant type wouldn't exactly trip my trigger.... now an accountant by day and a dirty rocker boy by night.... OMG, that's even better...

I don't like pretty boys either.... If you wear clothes from AE or Aeropostel.... I won't even look your way... I don't like that "attitude" that comes along with it...

one can't judge a book by it's cover, and i have a cover that's completely different than most will ever see, but completely different in person.


very true..... personality "usually" comes through in peoples style.... but yes, I have been fooled in the past, by covers...

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Thu 04/03/08 12:24 PM



I'd date anyone who has a nice personality and somehow appeals to me. Not to mention this girl is not the most attractive girl on this planet. i certainly wouldn't ignore someone over a style of clothing.


that was nasty...same could be said of you....beauty is in the eye of the beholder....

why? because i said she's not the most attractive girl on the planet?? did i say she was ugly?? No, you just assumed that


You implied that because she is not gorgeous that she should take what she can get.....

One man's trash is another man's treasure.....


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Thu 04/03/08 12:24 PM
nice to know some people likes dirty rockers out there---smokin

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Thu 04/03/08 12:25 PM




I'd date anyone who has a nice personality and somehow appeals to me. Not to mention this girl is not the most attractive girl on this planet. i certainly wouldn't ignore someone over a style of clothing.


that was nasty...same could be said of you....beauty is in the eye of the beholder....

why? because i said she's not the most attractive girl on the planet?? did i say she was ugly?? No, you just assumed that


You implied that because she is not gorgeous that she should take what she can get.....

One man's trash is another man's treasure.....



I didn't imply anything again you're assuming. I meant that she should at least give people a chance. I don't think she should just date anything that comes along, but stop being so goddamn picky.

hikerchick's photo
Thu 04/03/08 12:26 PM



It doesn't all the time, but as a guy... you know what you like and don't... the Laura Ingles Wilder type, or the brittany Spears type... those are very differnt... Could you date either one? Would they date you?

I like the "dirty rocker boy" type... I love tatoos and find them very attractive... I love alternative life styles... so an accountant type wouldn't exactly trip my trigger.... now an accountant by day and a dirty rocker boy by night.... OMG, that's even better...

I don't like pretty boys either.... If you wear clothes from AE or Aeropostel.... I won't even look your way... I don't like that "attitude" that comes along with it...


I am an accountant. I want a divorce. brokenheart :cry: sad brokenheart :cry: sad


but baby.....love love love love love you're so much more than an accountant to me.....


well, I am a dirty rocker boy at night..

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Thu 04/03/08 12:26 PM
Edited by ominousman26 on Thu 04/03/08 12:27 PM

It doesn't all the time, but as a guy... you know what you like and don't... the Laura Ingles Wilder type, or the brittany Spears type... those are very differnt... Could you date either one? Would they date you?

I like the "dirty rocker boy" type... I love tatoos and find them very attractive... I love alternative life styles... so an accountant type wouldn't exactly trip my trigger.... now an accountant by day and a dirty rocker boy by night.... OMG, that's even better...

I don't like pretty boys either.... If you wear clothes from AE or Aeropostel.... I won't even look your way... I don't like that "attitude" that comes along with it...
britney spears type????so we want a coke headed washed up singer,druggy??laugh

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Thu 04/03/08 12:26 PM

I was looking at some girl's profile and it said I only want an emo/rocker guy. Seriously does style really dictate the way someone is gonna behave or act?? Is one "style" really gonna make that person a better boyfriend or girlfriend?huh

I quess if you know what you want you might as well say it. It will weed out all the unwanted

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Thu 04/03/08 12:27 PM
This is the reason I don't email people. Why do I keep forgetting to not even botherlaugh

Lily0923's photo
Thu 04/03/08 12:28 PM

I didn't imply anything again you're assuming. I meant that she should at least give people a chance. I don't think she should just date anything that comes along, but stop being so goddamn picky.


It's called standards, it's called choices, it's called personal preferences.....

Let it go it's one girl...

Just an observation here, but.... maybe she has read your endless posts about 'ho hum, I can't find a woman..." that doesn't exactly scream "flattery" Some women like confident men, some women like weak men.... let it go... she doesn't like you..... Who cares?????

Lily0923's photo
Thu 04/03/08 12:29 PM

This is the reason I don't email people. Why do I keep forgetting to not even botherlaugh


Case in point...... You sound like Eeyore from Winnie the Pooh....

Lily0923's photo
Thu 04/03/08 12:30 PM

nice to know some people likes dirty rockers out there---smokin


:wink:

PacificStar48's photo
Thu 04/03/08 12:31 PM

This is the reason I don't email people. Why do I keep forgetting to not even botherlaugh

Maybe it gives you somthing to be bummed out about? Why should someone who knows what they want and sees you clearly are not it in the worong because you are not her pick. Better than wasteing your time.

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Thu 04/03/08 12:32 PM
Andrew - do you know how many men on here specify in their profiles that they do not want fat women?

I don't get upset or take offense. It is not about me; it is about them and their preferences. They have a right to like emo/preppy/rocker/thin/fat/blonde/dark/white/black...whatever. It is not a slam against anyone who doesn't fall into that category. Don't take everything so personally, babe, or you are gonna end up in an early grave.

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Thu 04/03/08 12:34 PM


I didn't imply anything again you're assuming. I meant that she should at least give people a chance. I don't think she should just date anything that comes along, but stop being so goddamn picky.






some women like weak men....





Which women are those? laugh laugh laugh

Haven't run across them in 49+ years....




Lily0923's photo
Thu 04/03/08 12:34 PM

Andrew - do you know how many men on here specify in their profiles that they do not want fat women?

I don't get upset or take offense. It is not about me; it is about them and their preferences. They have a right to like emo/preppy/rocker/thin/fat/blonde/dark/white/black...whatever. It is not a slam against anyone who doesn't fall into that category. Don't take everything so personally, babe, or you are gonna end up in an early grave.


that's exactly what I like....emo/preppy/rocker/thin/fat/blonde/dark/white/black

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Thu 04/03/08 12:34 PM

Andrew - do you know how many men on here specify in their profiles that they do not want fat women?

I don't get upset or take offense. It is not about me; it is about them and their preferences. They have a right to like emo/preppy/rocker/thin/fat/blonde/dark/white/black...whatever. It is not a slam against anyone who doesn't fall into that category. Don't take everything so personally, babe, or you are gonna end up in an early grave.

im already gonna die early

hikerchick's photo
Thu 04/03/08 12:36 PM


Andrew - do you know how many men on here specify in their profiles that they do not want fat women?

I don't get upset or take offense. It is not about me; it is about them and their preferences. They have a right to like emo/preppy/rocker/thin/fat/blonde/dark/white/black...whatever. It is not a slam against anyone who doesn't fall into that category. Don't take everything so personally, babe, or you are gonna end up in an early grave.

im already gonna die early


Take it easy, dude.You have your whole life ahead of you. Stop trying so hard.

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Thu 04/03/08 12:37 PM
I'm not trying hard. I email one person a week. is that too stressful?laugh laugh laugh

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Thu 04/03/08 12:44 PM

I'm not trying hard. I email one person a week. is that too stressful?laugh laugh laugh


nah, but let it roll off you. If the one you e-mail is not into you, wish her well and move on. Don't take it personally and don't get angry.

I e-mail guys that I think would be perfect for me and they just ignore me. I don't take it hard. They have their ideas of what they want and it isn't me. I just move on.

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Thu 04/03/08 12:46 PM
Edited by andrew101888 on Thu 04/03/08 12:47 PM


I'm not trying hard. I email one person a week. is that too stressful?laugh laugh laugh


nah, but let it roll off you. If the one you e-mail is not into you, wish her well and move on. Don't take it personally and don't get angry.

I e-mail guys that I think would be perfect for me and they just ignore me. I don't take it hard. They have their ideas of what they want and it isn't me. I just move on.

me and her talked. i told her to have a good day, and she apologized for being a jerk to me at first. I was never angry over this, i figured the whole me not being emo would be a turn off to her.