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How about just asking someone out for coffee that you are interested in. Don't ask "everyone" out. Ask out a woman who sparks your interest. Mass pick-ups are obvious, at least to me. Be an individual and treat the women the same.. you'll be fine. Good luck to you.

awe, your pimping my boi...love it!!

When you are always in a relationship and then suddenly single it is quite the adjustment! It takes time to realize that you do not always have to have someone in your life at that moment! It took me what seems like forever to be ok with being single and knowing there was nothing wrong with me. There is nothing wrong with being alone for awhile and having fun. I realize you want companionship most people do however it doesn't mean you have to tie yourself down to one girl! Enjoy life!!

there is a secret code but i can't tell you cause its a secret....you could always try begging....if you ask enough times somebody might just take u up on it....or just go caveman style & carry a club.....

Chris, go out and get laid! Throw caution to the wind(wear a rubber)you are to young to settle down.

funny.... but i dont do the desperate thing and i will not beg.
hmmmm a club...nope bad idea that would hurt them and i dont want to hurt people....lol

you offering?

and who should i sleep with if i cant even find someone to hang out with my dear?

oah well ill figure something out or maybe ill meet someone on here.....

thank you for all your advice everyone.... you guys are much better at giving advice than 4chan.....

well what u can do is get a club find a girl u like bonk her on the head and say mine its so easy a cave man can do it



dont worry it will happen and dont let a little word like no or no thank u get u down heads up bro and good luck

Take your time. Don't rush into anything. Things have a way of falling into place. Sometimes being by yourself is lonely. Especially when your used to having someone with you. Learn to like your own company and find things that you enjoy doing. Then when you do there will be other people there that have the same interests as you and meeting someone will just happen.

I nearly fell on the floor laughing at this.......not quite ROFL, but def. LMAO....

i try my best to make people laugh

Maybe a bit but dateing is a numbers game. How you ask does up your odds. Women like safe and public first dates but no friends along. Be specific would you like to go to such and such place on ____? Give her lead time and hand her your phone number. Odds are about one in ten she will keep it and check you out but you don't ask you are alone for sure.

yea i see your point but is there no way... short of hitting a woman with a club and dragging them off to a cave somewere as seems to be the most abundant opinion.... that i can find someone nice faster because im sure that after im a cop my chances for a relationship will decrease unless im with them already.....

Have you tried "Mutual Match"? Todays single's tomorrows couple's....

yeah i just finished doing that weird rateing thing on mutual match
so i guess i just need to wait and see if anyones brave enough to talk to me

LOL... well... then whatever works for ya...

no i meant that i didnt want to do the club thing i want to find a nice way of doing things

Hey, if you're a cop, don't they issue you a club?

And better yet, a taser, so you don't have to go chasing them down within striking distance!