Topic: Are there any decent guys in NJ
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Fri 01/13/12 07:03 PM




Nice guys in Jersey? I keep hoping but so far............!


Your problem is that you're too quick to judge. You won't find the inner value in anyone, that way.
Well I guess I am quick to judge someone who tells me if I'm wearing red lipstick he's out of there! My problem is I want a nice guy, not a control freak!

And that's where your rush to judgement was incorrect..
So now, you're home with your lipstick.



Just a question: Isn't the guy "quick to judge" a woman just because she's wearing red lipstick? I mean, if he said that at the first meeting w/out knowing "why" she's wearing it..that sounds like "judging a book by it's cover". Some Indian cultures use make up (including red lipstick) for religious and cultural expression.

Just saying...

Peace & Blessings.

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Fri 01/13/12 07:13 PM

In general, I'll agree, we Jersians are sometimes more shallow and selfish than people from most other places. It's like part of our culture. That's not to say that everyone is shallow and selfish because there are plenty of guys around here who are not. Just try not to be so disappointed about finding a wrong guy as you might miss out on someone really great in the process.



Please speak for yourself. This is a major problem thanks to certain "Reality" TV shows. New Jersey has many good, honest, hardworking people, and to lump the "whole" of NJ into this "fictional" category of "Selfish and Shallow" people, is not fair.

I know young people may not understand this, but please learn your NJ History, have some pride. Too many people have built, slaved, and died to make the "Garden State" what it is today. Try telling our local farmers who put "food" on your table that they are all "Shallow & selfish".

In the end its all in "individual choice" to behave or not. To treat each other good or not.

Peace & Blessings!

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Fri 01/13/12 07:15 PM


I believe that there are decent guys in Jersey, but it all depends on what you define decent. To most girls, a decent guy is a guy who has tons of money and willing to spend. But to a decent girl like me, well I want a guy who wont lie and who is faithful. I have seen one too many "players" and I'm tired of the same lame *** ppl. What ever happened to well mannered men?....huh


What has money got to do with a guy's being decent? It certainly doesn't take money for a man to treat a woman with the proper respect and dignity. If a female is looking for "tons of money" then she's likely not going to warrant the respect as she's probably not offering much herself.

I'm quite sure there are a lot of decent men in New Jersey of all ages. Just as there are decent women in the state. I wonder how many are merely afraid to be burned once again by those unscrupulous men and women that lurk out there?
Love, luck and good wishes to all. ;~) flowerforyou


Good insight!

garys8888's photo
Mon 10/01/12 03:24 PM

Also looking for a decent guy in jersey. I stress the decent part.

garys8888's photo
Mon 10/01/12 03:24 PM

Also looking for a decent guy in jersey. I stress the decent part.

garys8888's photo
Mon 10/01/12 03:26 PM

hey i am a decent nj guy

garys8888's photo
Mon 10/08/12 05:18 AM
i am a decent nj guy

MFALLCAPS's photo
Wed 10/17/12 03:24 PM
pssshhh come on...let's be honest now...there's no good guys in Jersey.

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Sun 11/18/12 05:25 AM
JERSEY STRONG

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Tue 11/20/12 12:09 PM
Edited by teebee79 on Tue 11/20/12 12:10 PM
NO!! NO THERE ARE NO GOOD GUYS IN JERSEY :(
The ones who say they are... ARE LYING THEIR A$$es off!

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Thu 12/13/12 03:01 PM
We're not always lying. Well I can't speak for every man and i won't try either. I'm not the greatest man but i'm far from the worst

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Fri 12/28/12 11:37 AM

We're not always lying. Well I can't speak for every man and i won't try either. I'm not the greatest man but i'm far from the worst



Well, Darlin' that's relative! You may seem cool to me but you may be the " worst" to the chick down the street.

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Mon 02/25/13 07:55 AM
Where is breakerblu

DEN1 's photo
Mon 02/25/13 07:59 AM
Breakerblu3 I'm here and waiting to meet you dude.good guy meets good guy

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Fri 03/01/13 07:24 AM
Im one ;-)

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Sun 03/03/13 06:44 PM
Hi, I am single and new in Princeton....any girl in NJ...

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Sun 03/03/13 06:45 PM
Hey... I have recently relocated to Princeton...

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Tue 03/19/13 07:47 PM
F nj

alb1954's photo
Sun 06/30/13 03:22 PM
Enough of the Jersey guy bashing already ill

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Sat 08/24/13 01:44 AM
Here I am - hundreds of miles away unfortunately.