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I don't trust any men. As far as I am concerned, they are all rats! Bummer ! |
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how to get over a cheater
hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm how about shoot the cheating F$%^ in the face 
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The one not to trust is yourself.....at least not until you work through the aftermath of infidelity.
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I went through the same thing. Infidelity strikes at the heart of how you feel about yourself, makes you question yourself, and brings with it a host of painful and confusing emotions. It takes time to work through it before you will be able to trust again.
It is harder to make a clean break when kids are involved. Good luck to you. |
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NOW I AM A RAT
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Stellar advice, Obscurelight.....(Didn't I see you on 'Americas Most Wanted')
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people do change unfortunatlely not many realise the pain they cause
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Both races have their assets and their defeceits. Cheaters are all races, ages, creeds, religions, genders, etc.
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LILY38 YOU ARE WISE!
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OOOpss. I meant gender as opposed to races.....
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That's the thing about cheaters. Most do not CARE about the pain they cause....they only care about what THEY want.
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Time does not heal everything. It just puts a scab on it.
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That's what happens when you are no spring chicken anymore, Mike. You either get wise or die tryin'.....
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but goofy you dont know all men ...and if you knew me you would know thats not my style ..i have never nor would i ever cheat ...wouldn't want it done to me wouldn't do it to some one else..there are some out there who dont cheat..and besides A.I.D.S is a reality not a concept..but alas my lovely the miles separate us as do the years ..
 one day you will find the right one ....
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One other way to get over a cheater is imagine them with various forms of STD's.......not too improbable these days.
No one needs to be committed to someone who can bring home scabs, pus, growths, lesions....even death to you. |
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My ex got another woman pregnant while we were married. I blamed myself for a long time. But now I realize it was his own choice-I didn't do anything to provoke it. If she had a problem with you, she should have talked to you about it like an adult. Cheating is never the solution. In time,you will start to feel better about yourself. Just take some time to heal. Good luck to you.
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No matter what you do don't blame yourself or take responsibility for her cheating. You didn't make her, she chose to. Once a cheater always a cheater. Now that the trust is broken the only thing for you to do is either live in doubt that she might do it again, or not let her. Time will make it easier for you to look at the situation with out so much emotion. Time will also make it less painful but you will never forget.
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Its lawyer time, let them lay the ground work. Infidelity should get you a quickie divorce, as no cooling of period is required. But high maintentance is right, once a cheater always a cheater. Its going to take time to heal. You will go through the stages of heart ache, anger, slight self destruction. We're here for you buddy.
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Tell me how to get over a wife who cheats on you. Can i trust any women again. I know i had something to do with her doing this but i cant not blame mysef for this. any input on this is appreiciateted First off, stop blaming yourself, you cannot take credit for the actions of another.... It's gonna take some time, and do EVERYONE in volved a favor, and until you are ready to trust again....DON'T DATE.... |
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