ive been using dating sites for awhile now and everytime i get interested in someone and they seem to be interested in me, a few weeks of talking they all the sudden say im not really looking to date someone and then they delete their profile...

that bugs the hell out of me anyone else have that happen?

Have you tried "Mutual Match" lately? This is a fun and entertaining way to hook up with people in your area with only a few clicks....

Yeah man! Were discussing that in the topic about2 below this one...the "Why is it..." topic.

a lot come for on-line friends,then when you try to step it up ,that happens......they want to meet me off-line,i end up chickening out.....

yeah the last chick i tried to hook up with was hella paranoid she thought that everyone on the internet was a stalker. its cool to be safe i havent got a problem with that because u have to be these days but after days n days of talking to her on here and on the phone she was paranoid... whats the point of having a profile on a dating site wether it be for friends or a relationship if your afraid of people.

If you want a date then go to the pay sites......chicks are miserly with their money and will go on a date for the $30 per month......so will men!!! You can tell alot by people on free pay sites.......not many wanna go the distance or try unless its put right in their lap......yanno???

well see i dont want to shell out money and get the same results.

you can always try for one month.......but Ive noticed there is alot of talk and no action from the free places.....jmo

exactly most of the ones i talk to on here are all like i want to be with you. you're the greatest all that b.s then when the time comes it was all a lie.

I hear ya!!!

i agree with the paranoia,i sent a lady 3 messages,she wanted to report me for harrassing her,they were not even nasty.....

I do not agree, the pay sites are the same, takes a ton of IM or email before you can meet someone and they are full of spammers from Ghana and Nigeria and hookers from New York and San Francisco.

Don't forget Russia and the Ukraine....

hey now,watch it about dissing the hookers,they're my only dating source right now







ok so some of them still say they have a headache

thats funny, i had one fine lookin girl from russia was gonna come see me, was workin here, thought it sounded funny but hey, she was lets have wild sex hot, about two weeks before she was to get here, i get the email, i have all the money but 400 dollars, could you please send it to me so that we can be toghether, I laughed my ass off, then was thinking, how many guys would actually send money blindly like that, if i wanted to pay 400 i'd go to the casino and gamble or something, watch out for the ones from russia with love, its for sale

gyspsy, how are you darlin, i'd give you action, meet me halfway

some get offended if you just view their profile, i like to view them even more then. some are jaded beyond repair, not just women, guys as well, some dont know what they want except to see who is interested then act like a nun, most on here would love to have sex, deep down, the friend thing and "someone who doesn't play games" is a popular phrase, this whole thing is a game with varying rules and people. let em report you, if it is nothing bad they wont do anything, unless its a mod and its there friend, its not always fair and even with the mods. some things you know will get blocked dont and some do that have no substance.
The ones that really get me are the ones that fall in love online , sight unseen, and the guys that get jealous and mad and all the faces if you say something to a girl they like or think they like or even if it is their girl, they are on here so tuff crap, get over it or get out of it. If a guy gets mad at me on here for flirting with his girlfriend, then i'm all over her then

if you just want sex, a hooker is the best way to go, they can leave and go home when its over, in a relationship, you will pay soooooo much more in the long run, worth it if its a good woman but gonna cost ya