do you know when you've found the person for you?

When you're not asking that question, because you already know.

when she doesn't file for a restraining order.......

When you know....you'll know. It's that simple. Now....finding that person...not so simple.......

Yeah, definetly a good sign.

I'm not sure

There is no one for me..I'm still taking names for those 50 cats that I'm gonna start collecting..lol

When you find yourself dreaming of spending more time with her, instead of trying to think of ways to get away from her.

I don't think I would be able to know that if she slapped me silly......

the alarm bells go off

if she starts calling out oh god oh god.......

He /she lives at least 500 miles away from you.

when they quit kicking and screaming and finally give in

i asked a friend

how do you know you found "the one"

answer we came up with

YOU DONT



ha, life sucks

I agree with you floh...good one!

yeah, just don't ask how i came to that conclusion

lmao

I'm pretty sure that my opinion is going to differ considerably from the norm around here, but a variety of advice can't hurt, right?

I don't think that you find THE person for you. That idea is romantic, but I don't think it's accurate (neither logically nor pragmatically.) Certainly, some people will be more or less compatible with you, but ultimately, compatibility only takes you so far. One way or another, you're going to have to work at that perfect relationship.

So while the emotional component has to be present, choosing your spouse shouldn't be an exclusively emotional decision. You have to choose somebody with whom and for whom you are prepared to work. When you get right down to it, the decision of whom to marry is like any other decision. You weigh all of the factors and then you make a choice.

So you will know that you've found the right person when you're able to DECIDE (after weighing both the emotional AND the rational factors) that this is the person to whom you want to make the commitment of marriage. You won't "just know." In fact, I'd even go so far as to say that if you feel like you "just know," then you probably don't and you need to think about it more. Until you can say, "I have made a decision," then you're not prepared to make a commitment.

When "Mutual Match" has matched you perfectly with your significant other...

when u cant wait to get a reply from that person and there is so much chemistry and you can talk about anything and everything
and that person makes u feel so complete and on top of the world
when u find urself smiling for no other reason then becuase he or she has crossed ur mind

when she says......" a prenup will be just fine with me...............

then she signs on the dotted line..................