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i would want a guy to tell me if he didnt want anything but a friendship with me, or if he just wanted sex.. so thats how i face things... there really is no other way
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Friendship sucks. I can make friends in real life that I can see all the time Quoted for truth~ And while it's certainly not a "given", usually a woman knows within 5 minutes of meeting you whether she'll ever be interested in anything more than friendship. I hear ya. Girls seem to tease more than they're serious. yeah i generally know with in a few minutes if a guy can be more than just a friend, but unlike most girls, I'll tell him straight out, I'll be like, ok, ur cool and all but i dont see us going anywhere, is it cool to just be friends??? Theres no point in teasing and leading some one on, it only leads to problems and hurt down the road. ....thats right darling...a real women shoots from the hip...no games, just the truth.....   ~wicked~ (p.s.- with time and wisdom we get better @ giving guys/things a second look Sal hun....  )
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to find someone on here that will email you back and isnt just looking for friendship  1) On e-mailing back: I don't respond to people with whom I clearly have nothing in common, or who haven't filled out their profiles, or who haven't given me something to respond to in their e-mails. I also tend not to respond to people with atrocious grammar and spelling. Just because someone sent me a message doesn't obligate me to respond to it. 2) I say I'm primarily looking for friendship. I actually am interested in finding someone else to date, but since I have chemistry with a small percentage of people I meet, I'm not willing to meet someone specifically for dating: I'd rather meet them, figure out if we like each other, and then ask for a date if I'm feeling those vibes. Otherwise I feel like I have expectations to meet, so I don't put myself in positions where I feel that awkward if I can help it. |
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to find someone on here that will email you back and isnt just looking for friendship if i lived closer and was younger.... |
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yeah i generally know with in a few minutes if a guy can be more than just a friend, but unlike most girls, I'll tell him straight out, I'll be like, ok, ur cool and all but i dont see us going anywhere, is it cool to just be friends??? Theres no point in teasing and leading some one on, it only leads to problems and hurt down the road. That's interesting. I tend to assume friendship unless someone brings up something more. I actually get really irked if a friend is making moves on me in a way that allows for plausible deniability and won't just come out and ask if I'm interested so we can all just move on. (This may be the next area where I need to work on my awesomely developing super-direct communication.) |
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to find someone on here that will email you back and isnt just looking for friendship 1) On e-mailing back: I don't respond to people with whom I clearly have nothing in common, or who haven't filled out their profiles, or who haven't given me something to respond to in their e-mails. I also tend not to respond to people with atrocious grammar and spelling. Just because someone sent me a message doesn't obligate me to respond to it. 2) I say I'm primarily looking for friendship. I actually am interested in finding someone else to date, but since I have chemistry with a small percentage of people I meet, I'm not willing to meet someone specifically for dating: I'd rather meet them, figure out if we like each other, and then ask for a date if I'm feeling those vibes. Otherwise I feel like I have expectations to meet, so I don't put myself in positions where I feel that awkward if I can help it. |
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yeah i generally know with in a few minutes if a guy can be more than just a friend, but unlike most girls, I'll tell him straight out, I'll be like, ok, ur cool and all but i dont see us going anywhere, is it cool to just be friends??? Theres no point in teasing and leading some one on, it only leads to problems and hurt down the road. That's interesting. I tend to assume friendship unless someone brings up something more. I actually get really irked if a friend is making moves on me in a way that allows for plausible deniability and won't just come out and ask if I'm interested so we can all just move on. (This may be the next area where I need to work on my awesomely developing super-direct communication.) I've always just been to the point, i dont see any other way. I'll say whats on my mind when its there...My parents wish now that they curbed my tounge a litte more when i was a child! LOL 
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to find someone on here that will email you back and isnt just looking for friendship 1) On e-mailing back: I don't respond to people with whom I clearly have nothing in common, or who haven't filled out their profiles, or who haven't given me something to respond to in their e-mails. I also tend not to respond to people with atrocious grammar and spelling. Just because someone sent me a message doesn't obligate me to respond to it. 2) I say I'm primarily looking for friendship. I actually am interested in finding someone else to date, but since I have chemistry with a small percentage of people I meet, I'm not willing to meet someone specifically for dating: I'd rather meet them, figure out if we like each other, and then ask for a date if I'm feeling those vibes. Otherwise I feel like I have expectations to meet, so I don't put myself in positions where I feel that awkward if I can help it. American Gothic. |
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your picture kinda looks like that one where the farmer and his daughter are standing side by side and holding the pitchfork. Damn I cant remember what that pic is called American something or other I think American Gothic by Grant Wood. |
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your picture kinda looks like that one where the farmer and his daughter are standing side by side and holding the pitchfork. Damn I cant remember what that pic is called American something or other I think American Gothic by Grant Wood.
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How about reading the person's profile before you e-mail them? That tends to solve a lot of problems right off the bat.
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Edited by
Fade2Black
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Sun 04/06/08 04:27 PM
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Am I the only person on this site without restrictions on their mail? i dont have restrictions you and me may be the only ones.. i see everyone has age or location restrictions which prevents me from emailing a lot of people No restrictions here either  I'm always open to friendships no matter what .. Interesting the OP never returned to this wealth of info left on his behalf 
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