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Topic: Do I ask him if
joycro53 Joined Sun 02/24/08 Posts: 309	Mon 03/31/08 02:45 PM
he'd like to go for a drink? I stop at a local supermarket and each time I go in there is a nice looking guy that looks at me and goes up and downt he aisles to see where I am but never says anything. He is a manager there and is usally right near the door as I come into this supermarket. The last few times I have been there when he sees me he watches when I am checking out and goes to the cashier I am at and bags for me or the next line behind or in front of me. He smiles at me but never says anything. I even caught him peeking around one aisle one day and when I looked up he moved back so fast and I laughed to myself. I don't want to make an idiot out of myelf if I approach him. Next time I go, should I ask him first if he's married, and then if he says no, should I ask him if he'd like to go for a drink sometime?

sexxyandsingle Joined Sun 01/13/08 Posts: 3283	Mon 03/31/08 02:46 PM
Hell ya, !!

irad8you Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 8261	Mon 03/31/08 02:46 PM
Won't know until you try Joy.

jjkitty Joined Thu 02/14/08 Posts: 1109	Mon 03/31/08 02:46 PM
Sure, why not?

izzie Joined Wed 02/21/07 Posts: 31834	Mon 03/31/08 02:47 PM
hes following you cuz he thinks you are shoplifting!! lol just kidding.. ask.. whats it going to hurt?

ddn122 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 12855	Mon 03/31/08 02:47 PM
as they say just do it!

joycro53 Joined Sun 02/24/08 Posts: 309	Mon 03/31/08 02:47 PM
I think I will give it a shot. I am not shy but I also don't want to look like an idiot if I am wrong.

irad8you Joined Tue 09/04/07 Posts: 8261	Mon 03/31/08 02:48 PM
Just ask sweety, no harm in trying.

wildsideof35 Joined Sat 08/04/07 Posts: 2189	Mon 03/31/08 02:49 PM
Hell yeah you go girl.....all or bust....

Madtanker03 Joined Thu 02/28/08 Posts: 262	Mon 03/31/08 02:49 PM
yes, by all means. there is nothing more expensive than regret!

sexxyandsingle Joined Sun 01/13/08 Posts: 3283	Mon 03/31/08 02:50 PM
Put your Game face on and have it,

joycro53 Joined Sun 02/24/08 Posts: 309	Mon 03/31/08 02:51 PM
Ok, I will do it. I will let you know how it goes. He is a cutie and nice body too, lol

shutterbug Joined Sat 06/16/07 Posts: 34376	Mon 03/31/08 02:51 PM
What do you have to lose...good luck Joy!

brimstone Joined Sat 09/29/07 Posts: 622	Mon 03/31/08 02:52 PM
Absolutely make a move girl. Remember...he's at work and may feel that making a move on you would be inappropriate especially if you said...take a hike pervert. Here's to your success!

joycro53 Joined Sun 02/24/08 Posts: 309	Mon 03/31/08 02:52 PM
Love you all, thanks for the encouragement

ddn122 Joined Mon 11/05/07 Posts: 12855	Mon 03/31/08 03:01 PM
I think I will give it a shot. I am not shy but I also don't want to look like an idiot if I am wrong. we (guys mostly) have been there.....it doesn't hurt for very long

flnative32750 Joined Sun 03/30/08 Posts: 81	Mon 03/31/08 03:22 PM
Go for it!! What is the worse that can happen, he says no. Or better yet, he says yes and you 2 have a great time.

iam4u Joined Fri 10/13/06 Posts: 30096	Mon 03/31/08 03:26 PM
Love you all, thanks for the encouragement If it was me I'd ask him if he knew any single clubs or bars that had dancing,,,,then if he says WELL I DON'T KNOW IM MARRIED, then ya know w/o letting him know your interested. But he might say,, YEAH,THERE'S A CLUB I GO TO ALL THE TIME CALLED,,,,,,??? And THATS your chance to flirt a well maybe WE could have a drink there sometime??? THAT would be my way......GOOD LUCK...

Fanta46 Joined Sat 11/11/06 Posts: 29361	Mon 03/31/08 03:28 PM
hes following you cuz he thinks you are shoplifting!! lol just kidding.. ask.. whats it going to hurt? Or take something, maybe he'll frisk you!!

tcbythesea Joined Wed 03/05/08 Posts: 265	Mon 03/31/08 03:30 PM
hes following you cuz he thinks you are shoplifting!! lol just kidding.. ask.. whats it going to hurt? Or take something, maybe he'll frisk you!!