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Topic: Empathic
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Mon 03/31/08 09:32 AM
Lily, Cebbie, Jilly, I have seen you in the forums but havn't really chatted with any of you. I am Michelle , 45 in Wisconsin. Enjoying this discussion. Rose & I are buddies.

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Mon 03/31/08 09:33 AM
Debbie sorry hens can't type

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Mon 03/31/08 09:33 AM

Debbie sorry hens can't type
no worries nice to meet you hunflowerforyou

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Mon 03/31/08 09:36 AM
hen...deb is a great chick herself lol

except that she won' be seen with me in public laugh

sorry...off topic laugh

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Mon 03/31/08 09:37 AM
Ok so she just called me, and said, she could tell I wasn't really happy, and she knew what that meant, and said she is going to take it slow and just date again, not move right back in..... AT LEAST, she heard my non verbals....

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Mon 03/31/08 09:37 AM

hen...deb is a great chick herself lol

except that she won' be seen with me in public laugh

sorry...off topic laugh




LOL as big as I am no one would see me, they'd be looking at you hon!flowerforyou

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Mon 03/31/08 09:39 AM

hen...deb is a great chick herself lol

except that she won' be seen with me in public laugh

sorry...off topic laugh
its the socks hun with the sandles laugh laugh ...rose is the bestflowerforyou

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Mon 03/31/08 09:39 AM


hen...deb is a great chick herself lol

except that she won' be seen with me in public laugh

sorry...off topic laugh




LOL as big as I am no one would see me, they'd be looking at you hon!flowerforyou


laugh didn't we have this talk already laugh

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Mon 03/31/08 09:39 AM

Ok so she just called me, and said, she could tell I wasn't really happy, and she knew what that meant, and said she is going to take it slow and just date again, not move right back in..... AT LEAST, she heard my non verbals....


You sound like a good friend & you have done all that you can . Stay available to her. I am sure you know being negative will affect her realationship with YOU more than the one with HIM.

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Mon 03/31/08 09:41 AM


Ok so she just called me, and said, she could tell I wasn't really happy, and she knew what that meant, and said she is going to take it slow and just date again, not move right back in..... AT LEAST, she heard my non verbals....


You sound like a good friend & you have done all that you can . Stay available to her. I am sure you know being negative will affect her realationship with YOU more than the one with HIM.


I know, that's why I didn't say anything... but she heard me, and came to that decision on her own.....

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Mon 03/31/08 09:47 AM
Well I need to do some self parenting here. I need to finish laundry, clean litterbox & get ready for work.

Great dissussion gals! flowerforyou

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Mon 03/31/08 09:50 AM
bye sexy hen hun flowerforyou

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Mon 03/31/08 09:57 AM

Well I need to do some self parenting here. I need to finish laundry, clean litterbox & get ready for work.

Great dissussion gals! flowerforyou
take care hunflowerforyou

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Mon 03/31/08 10:51 AM


Seriously, they have done studies on young girls growing up without fathers & "self esteem", but could watching the interation between parents be key in learning dating skills like the "bull sh@t detector"?
My dad was awesome...why am I such a crappy date? laugh
because you compare them to him

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