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im just me, no frills , easy going, i say my piece, it might not be liked...but i respect what other people think to..on here i like to joke have a giggle..yeh probably get on my high horse sometimes dont we all...do i know people on here well enough to judge them ..no...face to face, i take them at face value unless they hurt me then its bye bye
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My biggest fear about dating is that I'll fall under that spell of seeing only what I want to see. I think it's happened to all of us at some point...we let the fantasy of a thing spin dreamy little clouds, blocking the true colors of the sky right over our heads. i have done that...and may again do it too. i have the gut feeling but I put blinders on. then I'm proven right...I want to kick myself for not keeping it in mind and listening to my instincts How Rose, how many times I have done that! Boys learn by 10 months how to weasel a cookie out of Mommy & practice the sweet smile & soulful eyes from then on.... |
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My biggest fear about dating is that I'll fall under that spell of seeing only what I want to see. I think it's happened to all of us at some point...we let the fantasy of a thing spin dreamy little clouds, blocking the true colors of the sky right over our heads. i have done that...and may again do it too. i have the gut feeling but I put blinders on. then I'm proven right...I want to kick myself for not keeping it in mind and listening to my instincts yes, my bamboozle was a guy that I dated for a year and a half.... the last 6 months were hell.... |
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lily, i'm right there with you.
for some reason, though...i was always attracted to those that i KNEW couldn't be fixed...just to see if it was possible. now that i'm out of that phase...i still make snap judgments, and i'm generally right on the nose. maybe it's understanding human nature, maybe it's psychology, maybe it's good instincts... |
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My biggest fear about dating is that I'll fall under that spell of seeing only what I want to see. I think it's happened to all of us at some point...we let the fantasy of a thing spin dreamy little clouds, blocking the true colors of the sky right over our heads. i have done that...and may again do it too. i have the gut feeling but I put blinders on. then I'm proven right...I want to kick myself for not keeping it in mind and listening to my instincts How Rose, how many times I have done that! Boys learn by 10 months how to weasel a cookie out of Mommy & practice the sweet smile & soulful eyes from then on.... That's an awesome observation, but little girls do it to daddy too.... |
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Good Morning Rose! 
hey you sexy hen
LOl, Why TY Rose, but I have already found my Lesbian Lover on here , sorry! 
well personally I like the other team but after my last exs...i might switch
Rose, my theory is that if DA & I are a couple, men will see us as mysterious & unavailable, therefore more desirable! (we want mail) LOL |
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lily, i'm right there with you. for some reason, though...i was always attracted to those that i KNEW couldn't be fixed...just to see if it was possible. now that i'm out of that phase...i still make snap judgments, and i'm generally right on the nose. maybe it's understanding human nature, maybe it's psychology, maybe it's good instincts... after the last one, I decided....NO MORE BROKEN BIKES.. Only brand new shiny ones.... or really good rehabed ones... The rest go to the curb with the trash. |
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My biggest fear about dating is that I'll fall under that spell of seeing only what I want to see. I think it's happened to all of us at some point...we let the fantasy of a thing spin dreamy little clouds, blocking the true colors of the sky right over our heads. i have done that...and may again do it too. i have the gut feeling but I put blinders on. then I'm proven right...I want to kick myself for not keeping it in mind and listening to my instincts |
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How true Jilly, nasty hormones interfer with the brainwaves!
 I have brain waves learn somethin new everyday
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My biggest fear about dating is that I'll fall under that spell of seeing only what I want to see. I think it's happened to all of us at some point...we let the fantasy of a thing spin dreamy little clouds, blocking the true colors of the sky right over our heads. i have done that...and may again do it too. i have the gut feeling but I put blinders on. then I'm proven right...I want to kick myself for not keeping it in mind and listening to my instincts How Rose, how many times I have done that! Boys learn by 10 months how to weasel a cookie out of Mommy & practice the sweet smile & soulful eyes from then on.... That's an awesome observation, but little girls do it to daddy too.... I am sure they do, I just didn't have the oppourtunity, & niether did my daughter. Could the lack of a father in the home have something to do with the lack of "seeing" when a guy is just playing you? just a thought, I never got to interaction between parents. |
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My biggest fear about dating is that I'll fall under that spell of seeing only what I want to see. I think it's happened to all of us at some point...we let the fantasy of a thing spin dreamy little clouds, blocking the true colors of the sky right over our heads. i have done that...and may again do it too. i have the gut feeling but I put blinders on. then I'm proven right...I want to kick myself for not keeping it in mind and listening to my instincts How Rose, how many times I have done that! Boys learn by 10 months how to weasel a cookie out of Mommy & practice the sweet smile & soulful eyes from then on.... that's why I don't have cookies
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I am sure they do, I just didn't have the oppourtunity, & niether did my daughter. Could the lack of a father in the home have something to do with the lack of "seeing" when a guy is just playing you? just a thought, I never got to interaction between parents. Wow, you're really making me think today... My father was a good man, but a chavinist, so I am sensitive to men who feel they are superior because they have a penis... |
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TY you started the Thread!
I live alone & I love the forums here just for that reason!
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My biggest fear about dating is that I'll fall under that spell of seeing only what I want to see. I think it's happened to all of us at some point...we let the fantasy of a thing spin dreamy little clouds, blocking the true colors of the sky right over our heads. i have done that...and may again do it too. i have the gut feeling but I put blinders on. then I'm proven right...I want to kick myself for not keeping it in mind and listening to my instincts How Rose, how many times I have done that! Boys learn by 10 months how to weasel a cookie out of Mommy & practice the sweet smile & soulful eyes from then on.... That's an awesome observation, but little girls do it to daddy too.... I am sure they do, I just didn't have the oppourtunity, & niether did my daughter. Could the lack of a father in the home have something to do with the lack of "seeing" when a guy is just playing you? just a thought, I never got to interaction between parents. i don't think that's always true. my dad traveled in the AF and died when I was 7. I think I have chosen to not see what I knew in guys. I have gotten MUCH stronger about that. but I know that there are times when first impressions aren't always accurate. that's why I like to get to know others first |
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me likes cookies
..i can still twist daddy round my little finger now lol..though i dont
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My friend called me up last week and told me how her bf, (she lived with him) cheated and had been for almost 2 years, I offered her anything in my power to do for her. I had only met him a handful of times, and not once did he strike me as a "good" person. I could see his eyes, and I didn't like it, but she was happy, so I didn't question it much. I had been in their home, broken bread with them, so I always showed him respect. I just kept him at arms length. She called me today to tell me how happy she was that they were getting back together. I just had to say "well if that makes you happy, I'm happy for you." |
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Seriously, they have done studies on young girls growing up without fathers & "self esteem", but could watching the interation between parents be key in learning dating skills like the "bull sh@t detector"?
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im just me, no frills , easy going, i say my piece, it might not be liked...but i respect what other people think to..on here i like to joke have a giggle..yeh probably get on my high horse sometimes dont we all...do i know people on here well enough to judge them ..no...face to face, i take them at face value unless they hurt me then its bye bye sometimes it is hard to read others online. but then again when the attacks on others or insults keep coming all the time...then more than likely that is an sign that maybe something is wrong |
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My friend called me up last week and told me how her bf, (she lived with him) cheated and had been for almost 2 years, I offered her anything in my power to do for her. I had only met him a handful of times, and not once did he strike me as a "good" person. I could see his eyes, and I didn't like it, but she was happy, so I didn't question it much. I had been in their home, broken bread with them, so I always showed him respect. I just kept him at arms length. She called me today to tell me how happy she was that they were getting back together. I just had to say "well if that makes you happy, I'm happy for you." It kills me because her two best friends, who I know and like, think he is the greatest thing since sliced bread, and I am sure they said something to her to make her go back... Oh she's awesome, sweet, kind, hilarious...she's the good twin to my evil twin.... |
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Intersesting Rose, we have dicussed our simularities before, but I didn't know that. My father died when I was 5.
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