Topic: am i needy, clingy, normal? | |
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I told my girlfriend the other day that i wanted to see her but i knew she was busy...She said "I never hid the fact that I am busy." We only see each other maybe 5 hours each Wednesday. I didn't think it was a big deal that I told her I wanted to see her, but she seems to think she is the only busy person in the world. I thought women liked it when men told them they are missed, but apparently not. She made me feel like I am some needy loser, I'm not needy, I like to spend a little time with my girl.
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well doesnt sound like yall are working out to me
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Your bothering yourself with pointless questions. Questions about anyone regardless of sex gets nowhere, we don't know.
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sounds like she might be to busy for a relationship.
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that should throw up a red flag
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Your bothering yourself with pointless questions. Questions about anyone regardless of sex gets nowhere, we don't know. he's right, but I also want to add, if you only see her 5 hours a week, is it really a relationship? Sounds more like a booty call to me. |
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can't be a booty call, we haven't had sex
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Everyone has different personal space requirements...if you don't know hers, you might be invading it. Maybe you could ask her? I've had guys ask me if I mind how often they call...and sometimes was really glad they had.
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sounds reasonable to want more than 4 hours every wednesday...find someone with more free time
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Read the thread about how you know the other is cheating.
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she said that's the way she is, she doesn't like to spend a lot of time with her boyfriends, it is a turn off to her. She said she doesn't want to be like her best friend who spends a lot of time with her boyfriend. Well, that's fine, but I am trying to be in a real relationship where we spend some time together to get to know each other
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Read the thread about how you know the other is cheating.
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Read the thread about how you know the other is cheating. I like that thread. |
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HAY SWEETY ITS TIME TO LOOK FOR SOMEONE NEW SHE IS JUST NOT THE WON FOR YOU IF I HAD A MAN I WOULD LOVE ALL THE NICE THINGS MEN DO AND SAY THERE IS SOMETHING WRONG THERE SORRY BUDDY I HOPE IT WORKS OUT
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Everyone has different personal space requirements...if you don't know hers, you might be invading it. Maybe you could ask her? I've had guys ask me if I mind how often they call...and sometimes was really glad they had. I did ask her last night, i wanted to understand, I told her that she never explained to me how much space she requires. I told her that we need to communicate things in order for this to work out, and I let her know that I will give her as much space as she needs for this relationship. |
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If a girl is so callous and uncaring of how you feel then you should end the relationship. I would.
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she said that's the way she is, she doesn't like to spend a lot of time with her boyfriends, it is a turn off to her. She said she doesn't want to be like her best friend who spends a lot of time with her boyfriend. Well, that's fine, but I am trying to be in a real relationship where we spend some time together to get to know each other |
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Well, get on over here, then!!! I'd love to be missed!!
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Everyone has different personal space requirements...if you don't know hers, you might be invading it. Maybe you could ask her? I've had guys ask me if I mind how often they call...and sometimes was really glad they had. I did ask her last night, i wanted to understand, I told her that she never explained to me how much space she requires. I told her that we need to communicate things in order for this to work out, and I let her know that I will give her as much space as she needs for this relationship. |
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I told my girlfriend the other day that i wanted to see her but i knew she was busy...She said "I never hid the fact that I am busy." We only see each other maybe 5 hours each Wednesday. I didn't think it was a big deal that I told her I wanted to see her, but she seems to think she is the only busy person in the world. I thought women liked it when men told them they are missed, but apparently not. She made me feel like I am some needy loser, I'm not needy, I like to spend a little time with my girl. Wait..you only see her once a week and she thinks thats too much?..I like to hear from or see my man everyday..it doesn't have to be ALL day but everyday,yeah.If that means I'm needy then I guess I'm needy. |
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