I just wanted to point out to the men the things that are QUICK TURNOFFS about their profiles:

*If you look too serious, a great smile goes a long way
*If the guy has a sexual reference in his username, like oraljoe
*A selfie pic in an easy chair, I want to know he is fun, not a homebody
* Church pictures,workin' too hard (I don't go to church on a date)
* no desription except, boating, fishing, nice guy(doesn't say a thing about what I need to know)
* arrogant guy who puts that he's good-looking and wants to date(but he's still married!!!!!

thank you! also, is there any way to get more info on someone? What is posted sure is limited. I have no idea whether they are registered on another site, how long they have been doing the online dating thing...for all I know he could be a predator, just coming across as nice. What are your takes on this? I'm new to the online thing. Thanx@ and Merry Christmas!!

I've already messaged someone back. Or at least I thought I did, until he sent a repeat of his earlier massage. Is responding to messages free? thank you !