O.k., well I'm (obviously) not a "lady" and also not looking for men, so maybe it doesn't matter what I think, but - if I were you I'd work a little on spelling and grammar. Although, given the wonderful reception from those women who have commented, perhaps education or intelligence (please note: I am not, repeat, NOT saying that you're stupid) or spelling and grammar or whatever the problem is, is not really that important to them. Hmmmmm perhaps I should insert some grammatical errors into my profile.