It is good to have someone who can listen to what you feel than to have someone who pretends that he cares.. I too had same problem, my girlfriend shared her feelings in good and bad conditions and I was always there for her.. But when it comes to me she just don't care, but I stick to her.. (It is better to have someone in life then no one ) until I met one girl on FB. We shared phone no.s and chat all night long... And at that time I really felt the I have someone in my life... When my first gf found that I have been talking to someone else she dumped me.... Now I am happy... But the sad part is she lives 1000miles away and its not possible for mee to go and meet her... What I am trying to imply here is sharing feelings with someone else other than ur husband can be disaster or good ... I advise u better try to make ur husband understand what ur going through... And if not .. In future ur husband finds that u been talking to someone else then u will end like me... Good or bad it depends on u