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Sat 03/14/09 07:41 PM


i've given this some thought, and i think i might benefit from being asexual. no men, no women, just me. it's time for me to get serious about things (ignore the picture). maybe now i can accomplish my dream of becoming a professional napper, or a sumo weasel wrestler...theres lots to think about here...lots of seriousness about seriously serious things


You're 18, just ended a 3 year relationship, and you're talking about just enjoying sex by yourself.
There's a story between those lines. Feeling a bit used? Like the "pretty people" that are seen as objects, and having difficulty being "seen" without just being looked at?
Not saying that you are right or wrong.
You've got this one chance to learn to use youthfulness and looks to enhance your daily life and your future. Because they will fade. It won't come back, even when you're told that you look better and better.
Today's options for a good life are there. Use your goodies, for a great job, and start college, and look at careers...play the damn game to win, for you, because nobody else is responsible to do it for you.
And then, when you're OLD and in your mid/late twenties...


Way to go scoundrel!!
waving

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Sat 03/14/09 06:15 PM

your looking good toowaving


thanks i feel so much better now. waving

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Sat 03/14/09 06:13 PM

I chose abstinance for 10 years. It's do-able!!! Joke or not, it's a real choice.


I've been abstinant for the past 2 years. It began when i was still married and my husband's lover was his bottle, then we seperated and i need time to heal the wounds. Now i am checking out who is out there and maybe one day i will find the right person who will take me out of the funk i am in.

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Sat 03/14/09 06:08 PM
It's a like and hate situation. Today is the hate one, so if he was on the side of the road, i would run him down first, then ask if he needed help. If it happens that i have killed him, i would revive him only to kill him again. devil lol

Another day, i would stop, ask if he needed help, then tell him that i would get him some help and drive away. Never told him when i would get him some help, did I? :wink:

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Sat 03/14/09 06:03 PM
what about my short hair??? lol

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Fri 03/13/09 06:12 AM
Very well said. Thanks for the laugh!!

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Wed 03/04/09 08:53 PM
Both are at fault. When girl was warned she should have asked him about it straight up. Guy is at fault for putting himself in that position without advising girl of it.

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Sun 03/01/09 09:10 PM
I'm here, what's up?

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Sat 02/28/09 06:42 AM
I am so sorry for your loss.

I lost my grandmother who raised me from the time i was 1 year old. She had Alzeimers. She hadn't spoken in 2 years and when i walked into her hospital room, i told her who i was and asked if she needed anything and she replied no. Everyone stared at her and for the next 25 days, she came out of her Alzeimers to laugh with us, sing songs, cry and smile. She was acting like a child but it didn't matter. She recognized me and wanted to be there for me before she left me permanently. Those were the best days of my life. I gave her back what she gave me and I will always treasure those thoughts in my mind, soul and heart.

I suggest that you keep happy thoughts in your mind and keep recalling them. They will bring a smile on your face and the pain will not be there.

God bless you


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Thu 02/26/09 03:42 PM
Sounds good to me. Lot's of information.

Good Luck to you and Welcome to Mingle2

Monique

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Thu 02/26/09 03:39 PM
Sagittarius

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Thu 02/26/09 03:37 PM
Each one of those is good. Made me laugh, thanks

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Fri 02/20/09 09:37 AM
Having followed the LA Weight Loss Program you need to eat a little but often. My daily menu was:

Breakfast : yogurt with fruit (strawberries, raspberries, blueberries)

Snack : a fruit

Lunch: a salad with light dressing ( 2tbsps)with a bit of chicken

Snack : a fruit

Dinner : 2 cups of veggies (brocoli, cauliflower, waxed beans), 6 oz of any meat or fish not cooked in butter, 1 small potato

Snack: 1 cup of pretzels or 1 cup of popcorn (no butter) or a fruit again.

Good Luck!

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Fri 02/20/09 09:30 AM
Thanks everyone for assuring me that there are real people on this site. Made my day! flowerforyou

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Fri 02/20/09 09:05 AM
Tell me, is there someone real out there? I keep getting mail from these guys who aren't who they say they are. They don't have a cam, now I know why, because they aren't who they say they are. They tell me they love me after 2 or 3 mails and I reply back saying that is impossible, but they insist, then all of a sudden they have to travel far away and next thing you know, they have had an accident or have been robbed and need money to go back home. What is the matter with people, it makes us very discouraged thinking there really isn't anyone out there that is real.


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Fri 02/20/09 08:55 AM
This may be a dumb question but was is FNG? By the way, hello to you too from Canada.

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