I got left with my two from when my boy was 3months old.i found women would run a mile.think it because they dont have the bond with them like would there own.me i would take on a women with kids a treat them limd they were my own.dont think it work other way round much.other one you take kids to schoolu a all the women dtand talking a so on.you syand there a it like you not there.they dont try a get to know you.wish i could find someone just to love you back at not screw you over.because kids see it all.