Well I beg to differ. Its more of a generalized stereotypical notion that guys just like to mess around with girls and talk about sex and flirt around. Yes. There are guys like that. But an equal number ( or even more ) are the guys out there who actually genuinely want to have a normal conversation and see where it can take them. Not with any particular agenda. Who actually can care and respect girls the way they must be respected. Who are friendly and can show you immense respect. Who are pretty emotional when it comes to relationships and are pretty open minded. And girls usually push these guys away to a land called the ' friend zone '. Trust me. I know.