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why is love not equal?
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Love in many relationships is not always equal. Often, a man loves the woman so deeply that he carries not only his own responsibilities, but also a large part of hers. He provides, protects, worries, and problem-solves not because he is forced to, but because he loves.
When a woman is facing challenges, the man often makes those challenges his own. If 80% of a woman’s problems become the man’s concern, and he already carries 100% of his own responsibilities, then emotionally and mentally he is carrying far more. This doesn’t mean love is wrong it shows that love is sometimes expressed through sacrifice. And that is why love in a relationship can feel unequal, not because one person doesn’t care, but because one person carries more. Love is not always equal in relationships. Many men carry their own burdens plus most of their partner’s struggles. When a man turns his woman’s problems into his responsibility, love becomes sacrifice and sacrifice is rarely equal. |
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