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Mon 06/08/09 10:57 AM



nothing wrecks it for me more than a woman that lays there. If she can't get on top and work it I am wasting my efforts!

Then again I am a pig.


rofl So YOU just want to lay there??



Once in a while ma be but I look at it this way, Like a car's engine, there has to be reciprocation for it to work. That means back and forth. I like women who are not afraid to put it to me above or below. If I don't feel someone wiggling around under me at least I may as well just whack it off myself!

A dead lay is a dead lay male or female. I know for a fact I do my part. Do you???? (not meaning me being involved of course...)

I'm pretty sure.
I've never had any negative comments.. only guys wanting more.

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Mon 06/08/09 07:39 AM


How come after sex everything about a relationship usually changes? I was with my boyfriend Friday night and before he was kissing and holding me and then Saturday morning didn't do any of that. Now he currently isn't talking to me.. and I don't know what I"m supposed to think about that.


I've found that the wimmins usually start getting all weird and stuff after teh nookie. They start gettin' possessive (or worse), which will frighten some dudes away.

And I thought about that, so I asked one of my guy friends. lol.
He responded to a text at like 12:40 p.m. on Saturday. After that I sent him a text asking about us and nothing. Over Saturday I probably sent 8 texts, including that first one like I always do. We usually talk all day everyday, so I knew that wouldn't seem as possessive or anything. I tried again yesterday with just a few and saw he was online from facebook so just said can we talk? And got nothing. So now I'm leaving him alone until he decides what his problem is and then he has some explaining to do. And if I don't hear from him by this weekend when I'm going out with friends, then whatever I'm single again. haha.

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Mon 06/08/09 07:36 AM
Edited by oceanxbreeze on Mon 06/08/09 07:36 AM

Time for the hygiene checklist:


1. Did you brush your teeth and rinse before sex?
2. How you shower before sex? If not, how long since your last one
3. Did you shave?
4. Deodorant?
5. Clean room?
6. Clean sheets?
7. Clean kitchen?
8. Clean bathroom?
9. Hypo-alergic/Dustfree/odorless/Pet-odor free Air?







Yes to all of those. I mean I'm currently moving apartments so we were in and out of two apartments, but he knew that before coming over.

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Sun 06/07/09 09:25 PM


He might be freaked out by the feelings he is having for you and doesn't know what to do with them....


I think shes right on. I dated a guy last year who was like that, we had a 10 year age difference. It was wierd, but great sex.


Sounds like hes immature.

We already talked about a lot of things like how he had never felt this way about anyone before and stuff like that, but I don't know. We have an age difference but its only 3 years.

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Sun 06/07/09 09:18 PM

have you asked him why yet?

I tried yes, he's been flat out ignoring me since yesterday morning.

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Sun 06/07/09 09:17 PM

nothing wrecks it for me more than a woman that lays there. If she can't get on top and work it I am wasting my efforts!

Then again I am a pig.

Oh no, I did all the work. lol.

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Sun 06/07/09 09:16 PM

sex should enhance a relationship, if not, then they probably weren't after a relationship to begin with.


Which is what he and I discussed, about how it wouldn't hurt us just make us a better couple.

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Sun 06/07/09 09:15 PM
Current boyfriend yes, and we've been together a little over a month. And it was the first time. It was bad for me, but not for him so I don't think that would have caused this behavior. lol. Especially since he was trying to make plans with me for New Years already.



I've been used for sex before and I honestly thought this time was a lot different. lol.

Yeah, I'm not having sex for a long long time with any boyfriends now.

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Sun 06/07/09 07:40 PM
How come after sex everything about a relationship usually changes? I was with my boyfriend Friday night and before he was kissing and holding me and then Saturday morning didn't do any of that. Now he currently isn't talking to me.. and I don't know what I"m supposed to think about that.

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Sun 04/26/09 01:18 PM

Prince Charming huh? How Gouche....

spock

I don't know what Gouche means, but it's true.
I'm tired of the duds lol.

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Sun 04/26/09 12:57 PM
I'm new to this so let me know what you think please.

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Sun 04/26/09 12:35 PM
Not at all, we all want one sometimes.

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Sun 04/26/09 12:34 PM
single

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Sun 04/26/09 12:25 PM
I don't know how old your son is, but I'm 21 and if I smoked I don't think I would ever smoke with my mom.

Although, I know plenty of people who have and do on a regular basis.

It just really depends if you want to seem like more of a friend to your son or still keep your parent role.