Hi all first not sure if this be under parenting or not? But i'm a single dad of 16 yo boy (it's hell and fun at same time) and I work 12+ hrs a day, we've finally started getting along, but I want some me time. I've realized paying bills ain't everything and want to have fun and maybe find friends or other now. But to do so i've gotta cut time from somewhere, and feel guilty about anywhere I take it from, when I stay up late so as not to steal time from him or household stuff, I'm late for work! Should I just wait till he's grown or not? Let house fall down around us? Wanna be happy not sure how?

This is me summed up, there's more but not enough space, and yes I look like a total hick in 1 pic but it's just me. Can you tell me if this is worth it or should I wait 3+ yrs till my son is grown and on his own. I am new to this stuff so not sure if this site is right for me?