i am into fitness im trying to become a trainer (my sister is one and i want to open a busniess with her) so my pics of my "pecs" arent really to show that im stuck on my self or anything but for that reason my profile clearly states what i am on here for there are no misconceptions or confusion in that area lol. but thats funny ;)

hello to all. i recently opened a site here also. so yes i guess posting in the newbie section would be tradition lol. Kojack, i must say you hit the nail on the head with your recent post. those rules were to the T. and any man who is a man and has respect for a female will 1 follow that guideline and 2 already have respect enough for a female to come at her correct.

BUT!! (and yes there is a but!)

on the other hand all the blame cant be put on males. (now not saying i fall in this situation because i am on here for serious relationships only) BUT.....

when a female post pics of herself half nude or in a thong or whatnot downgrading her self to the public and is writing on her profile at the same time she is looking for something serious some men will be confused and respond to her from what she shows and not exactly what she says. not saying that just because pics are posted of that nature are wrong. but as you said why show the world what you have instead of finding that serious guy and then if you feel right about it exposing your self to him??

now i may be wrong or i could be right but those situations can be confusing to some men who dont have much control of hormones. im not trying to start a big argument just wanted to add to what you said!

Hope all is well for everyone!! have a good day or night depending on where you are!!