Sounds like u should have gotten therapy to help u with the trauma. Sex is apart of the human make up but there should be guys who just need a shoulder for support but uve got to look n the right place for them. Im sorry u went thru what was done to u and even more sorry that its left u n a state of resentment for a natural desire. Maybe u should get help r more help so at least u dont have feelings of hate within u thats not good for anyone whose been thru trauma my prayers r with u

Really i think its wonderful when a man stands up and accepts responsibilty for his kids dont let that get to u keep ur head up