What is noodling? lol

Hello, im new to mingle, however, at 46 I know what I want and it really sets the date when a man knows what he wants. It not just being old fashion, its also a presentation of who you are, you can take control of the date (in the context of...dont ask me ten times "so what do you want?". If a man can present himself as respectful and sexy, romantic, and intelligent, warm and easy to relate to, without worrying every 10 seconds,what I think for every move he makes, then he will definitely get that second date. Thats just me

hi im new good to meet you