Hefty

mysterious

yes please!

Yak

(a) Jack in the box (that isn't scary!) lol

mail carrier

Poke poke poke! Ehehe.. You cannot escape the poking!

Especially if there is a clown around :o

Thanks! :p Starting to poke around a lil and see what's going on in Mingle-world.

Zippy? Is that really you dressed up as a clown!? EEK!.. Clowns are so scary, lol.

Illness can mean so many different things.. It is a good reason, I suppose, for so many different cases.

I do not know if my son was hurt, but I am not willing to leave them alone together and risk that chance. I've seen and heard and felt too much to trust..

I'll allow them to meet then my son is old enough to understand what happened, and then he can choose for himself.

Thank you.

So my 2 1/2 year old son was playing with his toys yesterday with his Nana (my mom) when the phone rang and I brought it in the room because it was for her.

The little innocent sweetheart he is asked "Is that my dad?" plain as daylight..

His dad left/was kicked out/etc etc when he was about 6-7 months old and has not been back, we have never mentioned him, no pictures, nothing. But all of my son's friends have dads and nearly all of the TV shows he watches has moms and dads..

He's been questioning 'dad' alot lately by even giving his toys dads and he knows I have a dad..

Any advice!? I was really hoping to kinda have a guy around that I might eventually marry by the time my son turns 4-5, but it doesn't really look like it.. And he's starting to ask for dad already.

I'm not looking for a replacement for his dad, nor the reason I want a partner, but I thought it would make the transition easier for him too..

What exactly are you supposed to tell your child when they ask for daddy? I don't want to say he's at work, not home right now, etc, because I know eventually the dad is going to fight for custody (100% chance he'll lose), and odds are my son will want to meet him some day.

He has no visitation, never will by court order, so it isn't even like he's there for show.

Just honesty, I guess? Well, sugar-coated honesty till he's old enough to understand it all?

Pardon the long essay, lol.

What did you ladies do? Or guys?

Not sure if I posted here when I joined awhile ago or not.. But here I am anyway, lol.

29, female, from Detroit-area.

I have a 2 1/2 year old son that is my absolute LIFE! I don't even hang out or chat with people that I do not feel comfortable with.. Needless to say, I don't chat with many people :p

I am an avid writer and am currently writing yet another 'novel' but this one I hope to finish and publish into a book. Other than that, I recently went hiking at the Hocking Hills and discovered that I absolutely love rock and tree climbing (to the best of my ability) and am hoping to go again real soon!

I do not drive and still presently live at home, as it's safer here than on my own. I have epilepsy and have been having heart issues so I prefer to not live alone until my son is old enough to dial 911 or someone else in case something happens.

Other than that.. Just ask what you wanna know, I've nothing to hide that shouldn't be public knowledge anyway!

"You make me hard".. was sent to me just now..

REALLY? Do people really get responses from this crap?

I came on here hoping to make a friend, not to get this crap. One more of this and you can consider my account deleted.

(Some) People's lack of intelligence is absolutely scary.

So I've only been on here about a week, and all I've gotten are cheesy pick up lines and have had people claim they are 'exactly what you want.'

Really? Is that all that's on here, is cheesy pick up lines and people like that?

Last guy told me I must be a gold digger because I told him he doesn't know what I want in life. Really?

This is worse than High School.

"Hey baby" "Hey gorgeous" etc etc.. Grow up people :(