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Who gets the jewelry?
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heirlooms should'nt be given lightly anyway, so if i have given an heirloom and i end things its my tuff luck but if she end things then its get it back with or without the finger haha
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What makes You Happy
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weed n reggie
 
one good thing about music when it hits you, you feel Okay hit me with music, hit me with music now |
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Edited by
lonelysearching
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Thu 06/26/14 12:34 AM
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Quite some time ago, I started dating a lady who I thought had just broken up with her ex, then it turned out that it had only ended on her side and not on the ex's.. In retrospect, I suspect that the main cause of their breakup may have been because of me, as it was not me who took the initiative in the new relationship.. It got pretty ugly and her ex got so emotional as to even threaten to kill me with a gun.. We somehow talked it over and I got out of it alive, but it sure was a hairy run-in.. 
If any of you have gone through something like this before, how did you handle it? Is the only way to avoid it in the future is not dating anyone who had been in a relationship until very recently, like yesterday? How do you make sure your new date is clean in this regard? Is there any rule of thumb to tell it in advance, or it's pretty much like a roll of dice, or, as in my case, a Russian roulette? yeah this sound familiar ....but im my case i figured out what she was like before we got together, so (kicking myself now) i think i was lucky to last more then a week let alone 4years and have two kids...now slight dilemma that, still loved her at first everything as normal as it would be being seperated with 2 kids involed, so see the kids every week or other week...she gets back with one of her ex's after a few others has twins long story short she fks that up stop living at the house stays with a few friends etc im still seeing the kids then next minute she move's miles away, which leads me to still loving her but hating her also wanting to smash her face in.........by not being able to see the kids...so i been crushed by the split crushed by the move.......what happens next a good 10year depression (lovely) of which i think im about to pull myself out of ..........i have had to sacrifice alot just to stop loving her which seems to have worked i just wanna smash her face in now and im a walk away i dont wanna hurt you type person so laid back i could be a coffee table........So id say I havent got a f**king clue mate Russian Roulette's my game too. |
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Unicycling
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Who gets the jewelry?
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yeah gifts are gifts i melted mine, id have melted hers too but she wore them, sometimes wish id melted them anyway would have been a great guy faulks. so what didja make with it when you melted it? I mean.... is that a service you offer? lol well you say that i am actually teaching myself or learning, made a couple of items so far.......but i still have a little ball of silver, since its still alittle sentimental i tought id add all the scrap i get till there is no sentiment left, sort of helps putting the blow tourch to it here n there haha :) make it into something beautiful Thats the plan for my daughter one of her birthdays maybe 
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Who gets the jewelry?
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yeah gifts are gifts i melted mine, id have melted hers too but she wore them, sometimes wish id melted them anyway would have been a great guy faulks. so what didja make with it when you melted it? I mean.... is that a service you offer? lol well you say that i am actually teaching myself or learning, made a couple of items so far.......but i still have a little ball of silver, since its still alittle sentimental i tought id add all the scrap i get till there is no sentiment left, sort of helps putting the blow tourch to it here n there haha |
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Who gets the jewelry?
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yeah gifts are gifts i melted mine, id have melted hers too but she wore them, sometimes wish id melted them anyway would have been a great guy faulks. Haha...After that comment, I had to go look at your profile...Your way too young and way too cute to do jail time Searcher.... 
D'oh born in the wrong time frame even soo a good thousand miles haha |
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COFFEE!!
ALL DAY!!! 
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achievments u have made
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Yeah thats why i left school, i got bored haha just opens the doors thats all.
what is this thing you call Luck haha thanks though :) |
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some kids need a good slap, some parents need a good slap too, others that judge should get a slap because at the end of the day its all about respect
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achievments u have made
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left school uneducated
gained vast amount of course certificates 
every job i step into im promoted within the year, from the bottom to Management in a range of industries 
had two great kids
managed to **** all that up   
accomplished 10 year depression lovely 
nearly accomplished pulling myself out this hole woohoo
SO LIFE WHATS MY NEXT ACCOMPLISHMENT F**king BRING IT ON!!
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Topic:
Who gets the jewelry?
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yeah gifts are gifts i melted mine, id have melted hers too but she wore them, sometimes wish id melted them anyway would have been a great guy faulks.
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Edited by
lonelysearching
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Tue 06/24/14 09:35 PM
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sorry that just bugs me Anyway back to the question, No i do not think it makes people look dumb, but what it does do is, show you that they may have some sort of problem, being dyslexic could be one of them, so what type of person would i be if i were to judge someone on some Text that has little importance then actual conversation, yeah it could be off putting but if you say your not judgemental, you'll not let things like that bother you and continue with the trying to understand that person. you only let yourself down by judging others.
does it not look like to the other person that you could be the dumb one for not understanding simple text with/without grammar or correct spelling. Is Stephen Hawking dumb because he cant pick up a pen and write NO Is Enstine dumb because he apparently flunked maths as funny as it sound NO and he didnt flunk math anyway. Just because someone can not do something to other peoples standards, does not mean they are dumb. and in all honesty its a dumb Question. |
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TO be honest any American who has a problem with other peoples English, I would ask them to ask themselves, "how could I have been taught English when I spell words differently" (we could make a list of these words) And then accept the fact that you have not been taught English and so do not speak English, you have been taught American and so you speak American does that give you the right to preach about other people's English, I don't think it does, it's a little hypocritical id say HaHaHa
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