If the rubber breaks their both in big trouble.

Any man who gets married after getting away from a woman neeeds to see a psychiatrist. Any man who takes up with a woman with kids whether they are grown up or still young needs to realize tha he is only being set up for his money to feed her and her crumb snathers. Her kids come first and youre nothing. She will try to get you to adopt her brood to make you legally liable to support them and pay for their education. Then she is very likley to divorce you and get half od all you own and and half of your pension and half of your IRA and half od your 401K. She will also make you sell any cars you have and any toys you have like bikes, boats, cameras, firearms, property, rental property, half orf your business if self employed. She probably has done nothing to acquire thus and did not help you by working . She most likley does not work and sleeps late, watches Tv all day and stays at home. Yet the judge will insist you sell all you own and give her half of all you have. I would not recommend marriage to anyone. Even pre nuptial agreements are valueless. Men have everything to lose and nothing to gain by getting married. The entire US Court system and the Federal Government has destroyed the concept of marriage in this country. The pernicious influence of the USA has spread worldwide into many other countries that never had divorce until they were influenced by the USA. Even the so-called religious pastors and priests try to convinve women to get divorced. The whole mental health community promotes divorce to the people who see them. These groups of people should mind their own business and leave people in marriages alone. They are responsible for a sizable number of divorces and boken homes.