Ive meditated on this myself and that has only brought me peace of mind and patience as I wade through the messages from people that are just here to muck about or want money.

if you get anything else please share.

these scammers are on every site, including this one. I do not spend much time on these sites but in only 6 months I have been solicited for money from almost every man who has contacted me from overseas or another country. one guy even took 6 weeks and set up quite a story before he asked.
I have heard it is bad for men too.
there is never any reason any person that you have never met should ever ask you for money.

so if you come across someone you are chatting to who is a little guarded...maybe you can understand why.
Also I report every one of them.
so be smart, be aware and dont fall for the sob stories.

we live in 3d doesnt that already mean that there is more than one?

are you sure about that? do you know were you go when you sleep?

the sad thing is that the truth does not always come out.
not everyone can spot a liar especially non liars.... that's why they succeed.
People that lie have control issues and self esteem issues.

Why is it so hard to find ones with integrity? If you know truth in your heart and soul you can never understand these liars but it doesn't
mean they will stop.
if you can see them then does it become about learning discernment and letting go of attachments to those that don't honor their own spirit?
that's my two bits anyway