Ok, hoping i did O.K, what do you think? How does it scan to someone outside my own head?

Love in and of itself is not a sin, and i presume you are refering to romantic love. The emotion is never bad. Depending on your religious beliefs, is the answer to the physical side of the emotional question. There are a lots of social and moral hang ups about it. I am pagan, we are a bit more relaxed. As long as there is no prior claim issues, everyone is an adult, legally and emotionally, and love is felt from both sides, then in my opinion, there is no sin. Love was given to us as a reward for living in a harsh world. Enjoy.