Many people have different terms of "cheating". Some people do not see sexting with someone else or Only Fans as cheating while their partner might. Some people see just talking to someone else of their gender as cheating. Some people see prioritizing their own friend (who is your gender) over you as emotional cheating. If you're going to talk about cheating, you need to agree with the person you're dating what is considered as that.

That being said, the greater the fear and jealousy and more limiting the boundaries, the more likely trust will fail. It's important to address these factors.

Many people say the same about those ambitious mountain climbers (who do it even when it's cold).

At this point, I just for sure want my degree and career. The rest changes depending on how I feel. Life took me for some serious pauses and roundabouts, and I lowkey feel like a sub-par human.

People can tell you you're smart all they want, but years of indecisively dilly-dallying and life struggles ironically make one feel stupid sometimes. The degree counts for things.