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where's all the nice guys
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This is what I'm saying though....Racerx...yes...some women are gluttons for punishment....true....and they date azzes....TRUE...but men do the same thing....and they come in here and out in life whining about wanting a good girl...but when they have one right in front of them, they treat the nice kind girl like a dog....maybe because they let the dog treat them poorly in the past or something?? Who knows...the point is, they treat the good girls like crap....so the good girls get treated like crap from the jerks....and also treated like crap by the supposed good guys....where is the fairness in that one??? 
Thought you were going to bed, or maybe you're trying to hit 4000 tonight! Women don't want nice guys. They like hairy, ugly, loud and obnoxious, thirteen years older, Buddhist, skateboading, lives with mommy, freaks. Erum.............. no, I'm not bitter! Hey...I tried to leave...got caught up in this here drama.... NO...not all women want several year older guys who are jerk offs..... It's just that the good guys don't want the good girls...why is that??? actually they seem to want pole dancers now, no idea why... b/c pole dancers are HOT!!!! 
so's that burning sensation you might end up when you go pee 
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This one could go all night, I need to fuel up on Mountain Dew! 
Grab me a beer while you're digging in the fridge will ya? |
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where's all the nice guys
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This is what I'm saying though....Racerx...yes...some women are gluttons for punishment....true....and they date azzes....TRUE...but men do the same thing....and they come in here and out in life whining about wanting a good girl...but when they have one right in front of them, they treat the nice kind girl like a dog....maybe because they let the dog treat them poorly in the past or something?? Who knows...the point is, they treat the good girls like crap....so the good girls get treated like crap from the jerks....and also treated like crap by the supposed good guys....where is the fairness in that one???
Thought you were going to bed, or maybe you're trying to hit 4000 tonight! Women don't want nice guys. They like hairy, ugly, loud and obnoxious, thirteen years older, Buddhist, skateboading, lives with mommy, freaks. Erum.............. no, I'm not bitter! Hey...I tried to leave...got caught up in this here drama.... NO...not all women want several year older guys who are jerk offs..... It's just that the good guys don't want the good girls...why is that??? actually they seem to want pole dancers now, no idea why... b/c pole dancers are HOT!!!!
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where's all the nice guys
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This is what I'm saying though....Racerx...yes...some women are gluttons for punishment....true....and they date azzes....TRUE...but men do the same thing....and they come in here and out in life whining about wanting a good girl...but when they have one right in front of them, they treat the nice kind girl like a dog....maybe because they let the dog treat them poorly in the past or something?? Who knows...the point is, they treat the good girls like crap....so the good girls get treated like crap from the jerks....and also treated like crap by the supposed good guys....where is the fairness in that one???
Thought you were going to bed, or maybe you're trying to hit 4000 tonight! Women don't want nice guys. They like hairy, ugly, loud and obnoxious, thirteen years older, Buddhist, skateboading, lives with mommy, freaks. Erum.............. no, I'm not bitter! Hey...I tried to leave...got caught up in this here drama.... NO...not all women want several year older guys who are jerk offs..... It's just that the good guys don't want the good girls...why is that??? generalization? |
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where's all the nice guys
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and in case anybody is wondering im a nice guy i open doors, i help clean house, i take care of my daughter, and i respect women. but thats because of the way i was raised not a an ex trying to change me 
You must have had someone try to change you b/c you've mentioned it a few times... I'll take the good guy over a nice guy any day of the week.. a good guy knows what is an isn't appropriate to say and thinks before he talks and doesn't generalize... Just a quick note, the human brain remembers things by "generalizing" and putting things into categories, and there is a slew of philosophical papers out there on the matter. Since when did discussing things in a "general" sense become bad? I just made a generalization about people a moment ago and nobody got bothered by that. It's only offensive when you take offense to it. ,the gecko I do not like nor have I ever liked it.. If those you made the generalization to didn't care that's their thing.. As you notice in here every woman has an issue with it in this case not just me... The Princess.... Don't look now princess, but you just made a generalization. UM no I did not.. I made a statement of FACT... hmm, so now we need to differentiate between generalizations and fact. Which category does this fall into : "women are physically weaker than men"? I hear this a lot and wonder how you would categorize it, fact or generalization? |
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where's all the nice guys
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I need some popcorn...this is starting to get good... 
LOL I need to rest for a minute....give me some water!!! Popcorn doens't sound like too bad of an idea actually....... hmmm. |
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where's all the nice guys
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and in case anybody is wondering im a nice guy i open doors, i help clean house, i take care of my daughter, and i respect women. but thats because of the way i was raised not a an ex trying to change me
You must have had someone try to change you b/c you've mentioned it a few times... I'll take the good guy over a nice guy any day of the week.. a good guy knows what is an isn't appropriate to say and thinks before he talks and doesn't generalize... Just a quick note, the human brain remembers things by "generalizing" and putting things into categories, and there is a slew of philosophical papers out there on the matter. Since when did discussing things in a "general" sense become bad? I just made a generalization about people a moment ago and nobody got bothered by that. It's only offensive when you take offense to it. ,the gecko I do not like nor have I ever liked it.. If those you made the generalization to didn't care that's their thing.. As you notice in here every woman has an issue with it in this case not just me... The Princess.... Don't look now princess, but you just made a generalization. |
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where's all the nice guys
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and in case anybody is wondering im a nice guy i open doors, i help clean house, i take care of my daughter, and i respect women. but thats because of the way i was raised not a an ex trying to change me
I really mean no offense by this, Racer...and no, I am NOT bashing you, but I truly have a difficult time with others who profess themselves to be "nice". I don't think that is up for us to judge for ourselves. Certainly, I'm a proponent for "positive affirmations" and tooting our own horn at times. However, when it comes to trying to justify and validate our own self-professed "niceness"...I think that should come from others in our personal lives that can accurately provide references. Wow, I really like you. Here's another flower
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where's all the nice guys
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and in case anybody is wondering im a nice guy i open doors, i help clean house, i take care of my daughter, and i respect women. but thats because of the way i was raised not a an ex trying to change me
You must have had someone try to change you b/c you've mentioned it a few times... I'll take the good guy over a nice guy any day of the week.. a good guy knows what is an isn't appropriate to say and thinks before he talks and doesn't generalize... Just a quick note, the human brain remembers things by "generalizing" and putting things into categories, and there is a slew of philosophical papers out there on the matter. Since when did discussing things in a "general" sense become bad? I just made a generalization about people a moment ago and nobody got bothered by that. It's only offensive when you take offense to it. ,the gecko |
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I've added a couple a pics (from this year), changed the text around, may mess with it some more too yet. But for now what do you think? If it was me I'd ditch the yearbook photos but other than that looks good. Try to add a pic of your entire body, not just your face. I know girls always like to see the face more but if there's just a face, you may come off as hiding something. I especially like the first paragraph, very well worded. 
All in all, I give it an 8 out of 10 There's one of the whole body, it's from last fall, and thanks. Nice photo, always glad to help. 
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How about people start taking some responsibility for their own situations? Men and women alike. I blame myself when I take a bite out of a rotten apple, I don't blame the apple.
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where's all the nice guys
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see,everybodies ex is an a hole and these are women that laid down and had sex with them. im sure there was a nice guy who was trying to date you and you brushed him off for an ex. thats just life and like us men it will never change. lol Ummm...errrm...I think I can honestly state I have NEVER (and never will) say my few "ex's" were a'holes. I loved them for a reason...and remain focused on that reason...til the bitter end. I do believe anyone who truly knows me here can state my case that I have NEVER (and never will) "ball bash" any of my ex's. EVER! I am woman enough to stand up and say "guess what? I screwed up too!!" Sure they did things that hurt me...sure they weren't perfect...sure I may vent my hurt somethings. But, NEWSFLASH...I sure didn't see MY name appear in the Daily Times stating "Virgin Mary Found Reborn on Sixth Street in Zoom Zoom, NC" either. I don't love quickly, easily or often...but, when I do choose to share that part of me, it is wholly and completely with a love partner. There WAS a reason I felt love...once. So, when I find the need to walk away...it is ALWAYS with respect, NO MATTER HIS FAULTS (as *I* perceive them). Wholly, completely and devoid of the need to discredit my partner. 
wow, what's a guy gotta do to get ur number??
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hii all
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Good luck to you as well
Welcome to the zoo, beware the monkeys, as they throw their poo. |
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I've added a couple a pics (from this year), changed the text around, may mess with it some more too yet. But for now what do you think? If it was me I'd ditch the yearbook photos but other than that looks good. Try to add a pic of your entire body, not just your face. I know girls always like to see the face more but if there's just a face, you may come off as hiding something. I especially like the first paragraph, very well worded.
All in all, I give it an 8 out of 10 |
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Call or text?
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text unless you never get to talk to them at all....texting works better for me because I can think about what I want to say and delete if I make a mistake lolol 
But then, in a way, you are hiding who you really are. Do you always think about what you say before you say it. Or do you sometimes make off the cuff remarks without much thought going into them?? People are people. People make mistakes in some of the things they say. That's life. And just so the folks that have talked to me about this kind of thing don't see me as some kind of hypocrite...yes, I prefer written ( or texted ) word as well. But I also feel that it really is hiding. At least a little. A little???? that's what it is. I can see it now some mommy texting her kid: "honey, you were bad earlier and need to put yourself in time out for a couple minutes" because they are too afraid to lay down the law. Texting is a plague and it will kill us all off. |
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Text is such a load of crap that I'm not even going to go into all of the details. I've been on the internet since the basenet days before html and I have a growing distaste for texting/chatting. Maybe someday everyone else will get tired of it too.
As for the nervousness, seriously, get over it. "You do the thing that you're scared s***less off and get the courage afterwords" --George Clooney, Three Kings. If you can't handle a simple conversation on the phone then why did you give your number to begin with, or why did you take a number? As for my etiquette as far as calling goes, I call and usually don't leave a message the first time. I may call back and leave ONE message and then I'm done, ball's in your court and if you don't call me back then I'm not going to waste my time trying to get your attention, sorry. I'm getting too old for all the stupid "waiting 3 days" BS games that everyone wants to play. If I like you, I call you, and if you don't answer you're lucky to get a message, otherwise I'm looking for another. Just the way I am, wasted too much time already to be sitting around waiting on a phone call. And if you are going to call, call. Don't send me a bunch of stupid text messages. I have to pay extra for them and don't have them on my plan for a reason, namely, that I don't like them. ,the gecko |
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Quick Giggle
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thanks for the feedback. I'll try and work on it. lol
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Quick Giggle
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Feel free to comment as well
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Quick Giggle
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Sun 07/05/09 09:29 PM
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