There is no absolute cure, I have lived with a bipolar woman for the past 9 years. They have to see that there is a problem and want to seek help. Meds are not always the answer and they are not a cure,they only help cope. There are all kinds of support groups out there if you can find one and both attend a meeting it may help you both find a way to deal with it. Don't take everything as an attack on you they can not help there mood swings-try to be understanding-walk on eggshells.no pun intended. Read self help books they can't hurt.